I was married for 14 years, most of them unhappy and controlled. We had a bitter divorce and custody battle that never ended, even once the papers were signed. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 years. We even own a house together. Marriage however has not been something Ive been interested in. When I think of getting married I get nauseaus and light headed.
He's a nice guy who can be a real jerk and the honeymoon has been over for years but, I never even imagine my future without him in it.
I have the chance to leave a job I HATE to take a job I will hopefully love, the downside is the kids and I will lose our health insurance. If I married my long time boyfriend we would be covered under his. I keep telling myself that getting out of owning a house together is harder than getting out of a marriage and that its just a piece of paper but still thinking about it makes me physically ill.
Suggestions?
2006-06-14
10:55:55
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16 answers
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vacca33
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Marriage & Divorce