So, I am a 5'9" female. I've always been tall and thin and about a year ago I lost about 20 lbs and was down to 113 for my height. I was always told "wow you are so thin!" "do you eat?" "you are a twig" etc. Well I had problems with my period cycle and was told to gain weight, and also had my parents and family and friends on my back about gaining weight. SO, I gained some weight back and now weigh between 125-130. I feel bigger now, and people will still comment on how thin I am, but every once in a while a guy co-worker will joke around for example the other day I said I needed to get something and a guy I work with said "get your fat butt up there!" Well that HURT! Really bad! I got upset and he goes "YOU KNOW you aren't fat, very far from it!" but people do not understand how one comment can hurt someone's self-esteem that much more. SO, my question is, why do people feel the need to comment on others weight to them?
2006-12-04
17:10:29
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