Pro-Choice Abortion Question Reposted! Please answer the question only if you are pro-choice! Thanks!?

Question

I am reposting this question because I got to many responses from people that are pro-life. I only had 2 people that were pro-choice, but thats not enough to make a decision on. I don't care about their opinion. Before you answer my question please state in your answer whether you are pro-choice or pro-life. If you are pro-life please don't bother answering my question because I really don't care what you have to say. If you already answered my question then their is really no need to answer again. I will tell you a little about myself. I am 27 year old. I am getting older, but I still like to party and love my weed. As you will see I have no time for a child in my life. After all it is my body and not even my boyfriend can tell me what I can or cannot do with my own body. I will post the question under details, so please don't answer my question until I have the details setup. thanks!

How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to have this baby. Having this baby would be an inconvient to me and I just rather have an abortion, so I don’t have to be responsible for this child. I like to party, drink, and hang out with, not spend all my time raising a child. I have already had 12 abortions, so another one is no big deal to me. I see abortion as an easy way out, so I don’t have to care for him/her. I feel that its just to much work raising a child because I don't want it cutting into my fun time. If I wanted to I could financially afford my child and provide a nice home for him, but why should I raise him if I don’t want to. I also do not want to go through the whole adoption procedure because its to much work on my part.

How do I tell my boyfriend that there is nothing wrong with me have an abortion. I have no feeling for this child what so ever. He says what I am doing is disgusting. Its my choice and I chose not to have this child. How do I tell my b/f that, I don’t want to lose him over this.

I also don't want to carry this baby to full term because their is to much pain involved.

Answer 1

I am pro-choice.

Your question is 'how can I tell my boyfriend I don't want this child, I don't care for it at all. And I don't care that I've had 12 abortion"

Is that right?

If you've already told him and he ignores it, you can show him my response where the entire statement is in one place.

If he's still unable to grasp what you're saying, then he deserves to be with someone as selfish and foolish as you are.

I approve of a woman's right to choose abortions, but not as birth control. There should be a special law for someone like you. Even dogs and cats are spaded and neutered to prevent unwanted pregnancies. You are human, act like one.

Answer 2

You could do with some education (spelling) and general life help.

Just go to the damn clinic.
They have people there who WILL (not may, they must) talk to you about the decision to have an abortion before you get one.

There are even phone numbers online or in the yellow pages where you can discuss your options (even if you have made up your mind you can discuss the pros and cons, and stuff you maybe haven't thought of will be mentioned)

I don't have an opinion either way on the whole abortion thing but your reasons are stupid.
YOUR body? Excuse me, but there are 3 LIVES to consider when you talk about the abortion (you,dad, baby) and TWO BODIES (you,baby)

What about the rights of the unborn baby? You would be violating their rights by saying your life (of partying apparently) is more important than that baby even getting a chance at life.

You look like you're trying to convince yourself that an abortion is okay when you've not really made up your mind.
Why else would you be on here looking for things to try and make you feel better about having an abortion. Shouldn't you have come up with reasons yourself? If you don't you will surely regret this decision in the future as you're just repeating someone elses views and not your own true beliefs about the messy situation you're in.

Answer 3

I am pro-choice! I think that you are taking advantage of the system. Do you realize that you killed 12 babies??!! If you dont want a child then why are you having sex with no protection. Use birth control or maybe a condom! There are so many people out there that would kill to have a child and you are just throwing them away like no other. I am pro-choice and I beleive that it is the parents choice but come on that is ridicoulous!!! 12 abortions!!! You are very selfish and I think by now you should have grown up a little to know what you are doing!

Answer 4

While I'm pro-choice, you're the first person who's made me rethink whether or not everyone deserves to get abortions. 12 abortions... I mean, the only other animal i can think of that kills that many of their young is a rat. Let's see, you're 27 and you've already had 12 abortions, so if you started these abortions at 18 years old, this would mean you have had an abortion more than once per year. I'm going to bookmark this question because I really want to see if anyone is crazy enough to be able to justify this in any way. As to what you should tell your boyfriend, I'd say you should break up with him if you really love him. You've obviously already f*cked up your life, you shouldn't drag him down too.

Answer 5

I am pro-choice. Although, like some others, I'm rethinking my feelings on this after reading your question.And also wondering "is this really an actual question?" It is a little hard to grasp that you have had so many abortions. Actually it's sad to me. Not just sad for the unborn children but what your doing to yourself. I guess your going to do what you want to do, and it sounds as though you have made your mind up already, so what does the thoughts or feelings of anyone else matter at this point? Honestly, if you look at it this way, it's good that you have had abortions because no child deserves to be brought into a life you describe you live. You can keep it to yourself, tell your boyfriend, the whole world (obviously) but you are going to do what YOU want to anyway. One last comment... Karma...You reap what you sow.

Answer 6

I dare you to go to a pro-choice rally with the sign that says "I had 12 abortions, I smoke weed, and I feel no shame!!!" That would not be a good pro-choice message nor a good message for legalizing marijuana. Even Willie Nelson would be ashamed.

Abortions should be safe, legal, but always rare. I am pro-choice, but I am not pro-abortion. I will always vote to give you the right to have one legally and safely, but it is still not morally right.

And after reading your message, I think you should be put away in a psyche ward or at least in a trailer park down by the river. You definitely have mental issues if you feel like having abortions empowers you as a woman.

Also, abortions cost $$$. It would have been alot cheaper and safer to use a $.50 x 12 condoms. ($6 vs $6000+...gee wiz I guess someone does not know math...thats not very surprising eh)

Answer 7

SEEK COUNSELING. YOU NEED SERIOUS PSYCHIATRIC HELP. I am pro choice, and personally could never have an abortion, but support a womans right to. You are using abortion as birth control and should just go and have your tubes tied if you want to continue whoring around and using drugs. You have no respect for yourself or your body. I wouldnt be surprised to find out that you have some sort of STD. Asking pro choice people wto answer your question will not get you the answer your looking for.

Answer 8

youre selfish.

You are irresponsible. I hope to hell she is paying for the abortions herself, but even still, a small portion of that is paid for by YOUR tax dollars. I bet you she goes to a place like planned parenthood and says some bullshit like "i dont have that much money, i spent it on weed, heres a $50 donation though". Before someone attacks me for hating, I have nothing against weed, the issue here is that its dipping into money I pay into taxes for funding of these places. I am pro choice too, but not when its so someone else can party while I have to work my bloody butt off 40-70 hours a week so she can sit on her butt and get stoned like Towelie without a care in the world, I think not. It's only 9 months worth of non smoking while the baby is brought to term. You cant live without weed for 9 months? Gosh, she's friggin pathetic. Ugh, this brought the Coulter out of me, LOL. Im really not at all a hostile person but Ive seen so many similar cases and it always irks me. YES it is your body but it is also your irresonsibility which is taking MY money which should be spent on a rape victim and wasting it on yourself. You owe me 3 ounces of weed

Answer 9

In cases of rape, incest or if a pregnancy would not end up being a full term viable baby I am to some extent pro choice. I find your "question/self-answer" in itself to be extremely disturbing. I guess that the world would be better off if your baby would grow up to have your mind set. It's just a shame that your mom didn't feel this way 28 years ago... ps. Why not try using birth control, or even the "morning after" pill?

Answer 10

I don't think it is going to matter whether the person answering your "question" is pro-choice or not. You are a seriously sick person and you need psychological help. You obviously have no self-respect if you want to put your body through this kind of hell. 12 abortions!!! You are nuts and don't deserve to ever have any children. Also, if your boyfriend was in his right mind he wouldn't want to be around someone like you. Why don't you just do society a favor and have yourself surgically sterilized.