guys---how do you feel about taking your mother's last name?

Question

I just wanted to know because I know alot of men are aganist this even when their fathers abondan them

Answer 1

Emasculated

Answer 2

Well, as it happens, my mother's last name is that of my father, so it makes the choice easy. Supposing that were not the case and I grew up with her as the only parent in my life, I do not imagine it would bother me to take her last name. After all, if she manages to raise a well adjusted adult by herself you could easily argue that she deserves this.

Answer 3

My son wants to change his last name to my maiden name because his dad was never around and my mom & dad help me raise him. Unfortunatley we still need his "real" dad to ok the change and he wont do it.