Successful African American Men do not belong to Black Women any more than they belong to anyone else, so why do Black Women say that White Women are taking their good men? As an African American guy, I decided that I wanted to be part of the productive part of society an not just another embarrassing statistic. I have a professional career and do not have any children. Therefore, I don’t owe anyone anything. But why do Black Women act as if I owe them something? Why don’t they claim the African American Men who are not as fortunate as myself but instead very often look down on them, but when guys such as myself reject them, they can’t seem to take it as easily as they dish it out. I’ve watched how the so-called educated Black Women rudely turn down some of my Black Male friends and other guys who are not as fortunate as myself and they seem to have no class or respect, even to the nice ones. But I have more than those so-called educated Black Women(guaranteed), so I feel that they are below my standard...and aside from that, Black Women do not own the successful African American Men who date White, Asian, Latin or any other culture of women - we do not claim them, so they should not be so desperate to claim us. I see Black Women to be the most desperate and selfish because they don’t see how rude they are to reject guys who they don’t want, but when the guys they want reject them, they act desperately by calling us every name in the book - that’s just desperation. Some people are quick to pity Black Women who are rejected by the successful African American men and say that we are generalizing, but I think they should start giving that advise to Black Women who generalize. They are the ones always complaining about being rejected for White and other cultures of women. What a psychotic double standard.
2006-08-23
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