I don't know what to do about buying gifts for my nephews' live-in girlfriends. On one hand, I feel like it would be rude not to buy them anything. However, I haven't met one of them (although I will meet her before Christmas and they are officially engaged as of yesterday) and the other one I cannot stand and therefore don't actually want to buy her anything at all! I think now that nephew #1 is engaged means that his significant other should rate higher than a live-in girlfriend and that maybe I should buy her a little something but I know this will hurt nephew #2's girlfriend's feelings if she found out but truth be told I don't want to spend a nickel on her!
I have thought about giving them both a consumable gift, like Christmas cookies or caramel corn as a joint present with the boys so feelings don't get hurt but I am not sure if this is acceptable.
How should I approach this potentially sticky situation?
2007-10-17
19:30:51
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