i dont just want anyone handed to me and have to accept it, i want to be able to choose the girl and partner i want. it frightens me at the thought of just accepting somebody thats matched up with you, or who just comes along..
im a bpd sufferer since 15 and im 30 now, ive never had a partner or a girlfriend because of my long standing psychological problems, so at the moment i feel determined to try and work through my difficult problems, with therapy...
but i dont wanna think that in the girlfriend department, ill have to just accept anyone that comes along, just 'any' somebody..
that ill end up accepting because im lonely and theres no one else....no id rather die, i feel that strongly about it. i dont just wanna accept somebody because i cant get the partner or girl i choose, its either i get what im looking for, or i DIE lonely.
and i cant help but interpret that saying' theres someone out there for everyone' that ill have to accept whats given. can anyone understand me?
2007-07-03
01:42:30
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