Hi, I currently am having real problems with myself. I'm 21 and have reached a point where I find it very hard to look at a girl and find her attractive.
I broke up from my first and only relationship 7 months ago and it hurt me and my ex greatly- we are however still really good friends and spend quite a lot of time together, (even though she is in a new relationship).
My libido has plummeted and my self esteem is also rock bottom. I crave intimacy and love but not really sex as i'm now quite scared of that- it was a prime factor in the breakup.
I'm lost and don't know what to do- learning to love myself is all good and well but I really can't see myself getting into another relationship or having sex anytime soon. I don't have many friends but I am a likeable person- I think people assume i'm popular. I'm a really nice guy, but traits such as being exciting, flirty, interesting and fun seem to elude me and it really gets me down a lot of the time.
Excuse the ramble x
2007-03-17
10:28:33
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