The only problem is that she gets off many times and i never get close... i know im not homosexual and that i love females but i just dont understand how i dont ejaculate, i do when i masterbate and having sex is a lot better then masterbating but i just have this problem... can someone help???
2007-03-17 05:45:13 · 8 answers · asked by =TJ= p 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You are not relaxed enough, its mind over matter
You are now worrying about it, try have a massage and lots and lots of touching before hand,
xxx
2007-03-17 05:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wearing a condom during intercourse could prevent you from ejaculating. Or if in the back of your mind you're worried about getting her pregnant it may be holding your back from crossing the finish line.
If you can finish when you're on your own, I'd say you're probably fine physically. So more than likely, it's something mental or maybe even stress.
After getting she climaxes, you can ask her to stimulate you in other ways until you finally get there too.
2007-03-17 12:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rayvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will give you a different answer!! I'm sure you will get the predictable list of cut and paste anwers as well as macho juvenile crap. In my case, I would simply ask you to ASK YOURSELF if any of the following MIGHT apply to you because they ARE the main reasons for inability to ejaculate during intercourse but ejaculation okay during masturbation! Here is the list: religious restrictions? fear of impregnating? lack of physical interest in that female? love of another? mixed feelings about that woman? suppressed anger? fear of abandonment by her? obsesing about that relationship otherwise? Do ANY of those in any way apply to you? Think it over.
You hold the key to the answer!
Good luck!
2007-03-17 12:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You left out the part where you said you're using a condom, I bet. They reduce the hell out of sensation.
Then you get all focused on wanting to sploot, and that further burdens you.
My advice is to keep pluggin' away until you get it :)
2007-03-17 16:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats strange.
hm perhaps you guys do it to much.
do you materbate [not to be nosey] before she comes over and you guys begin to do it?
b/c for what i know, after ejaculating, the penis then dies down and needs time to heal itself up for you to actually get more blood pumping into it causing you to ejaculate again.
if this doesn't help..
maybe you can ask your girlfriends to squueeze a bit when you guys are doing it to that you can feel the same tight feeling..as if its you`re hands doing it to yourself.
hm hope that helped.
2007-03-17 12:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by sh0rtness15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Youn nerves you need to relax and take a hold of yourself.
2007-03-17 14:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by BLESSED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are trying too much, get her to jerk or suck you off and take it stage by stage
2007-03-17 14:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend says you are playing with it too much, he says stop before you go blind!!
2007-03-17 12:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Melody F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋