Singles & Dating - 27 March 2007

I broke up with my ex of 5yrs last year cuz he cheated on me. It's been almost a year since we broke up with him. (we were still seeing each other till three months ago).

I know that I don't wanna get back with him. I never wanna see him either. I don't love him. But I recently heard that he has a girlfriend now. I was really sad when I heard about it. Maybe I'm not happy because he's happy.

Do I still have a feeling toward him? I wanna forget about him completely.

Also, I'm dating with this guy whom I met on myspace. We're dating but not serious. I'd never met anyone from online. I'd never had this kind of relationship either. I was always serious with my ex. But this time, I know for sure that he is not the right person. But I'm still dating I guess cuz I'm kinda lonely. Same as him. but I feel guilty about that too. none of my friends know him.

I really don't know what to do... Should I stop dating with the guy? How can I forget my ex? I don't wanna think about him anymore...

2007-03-27 09:32:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay ive been seing this guy for like 8 months now. We are very open with each other and we know that we both see others as well. However, im starting to fall for this guy and cant get him off my mind. Its driving me absolutly nuts, i analyze everything he says. Wondering does that mean he likes me or why hasnt he talked to me today. Just really being lame i am. I need to know what i can to for him to like me best! i think the problem is that i have a child and he doesnt want to get close to her. He said before hes been in a relationship when the girl has had a child and he was so sad when they broke up. He has said he wasnt ready for something serious but its been a while now. I mean do i give him some more tiem or do i give him an ultimatum. I really like him and want him in my life but my feelings are getting stronger. We text each other almost everyday and see each other 2 a week plus or minus. But he is kinda secrective and that worries me . PLEASE HELP

2007-03-27 09:31:19 · 2 answers · asked by Natalie W 1

hi
iam in love with turkish girl .but problem is she have a boy friend .and i live in london and she live in istanbul .last three years to i know him .we were studing london. but now iam going istanbul in may .and i have her address phonw number and everythink .but she told me dont call me and dont msg me .
but i wanna see her 1time . wat should i do .should i go istanbul and call her ?? does she come to meet me or not .
plz i am in problem because i am in love .but wanna see her 1 time and last time .

2007-03-27 09:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by sunny777 1

I need to know all details!

2007-03-27 09:30:52 · 7 answers · asked by Laquana J 1

2007-03-27 09:30:31 · 20 answers · asked by Princesa 3

ok my ex boyfriend who i would die for one year we dated then i broke up with him because of something i was told the was a lie now he was dateing this one girl who hates me and one day me and hm where walking togeather when i was upset he put his arm around me kisses me and said everythings all rigth and that i love you and me and you will soon be togeather then later he goes off and kisses his girlfriend then tells my friend he does'nt like me and has giveing me to many chances when i broke up with him because he got SUPER jeslous of my guy friend and hen he asked me if we could get back togeather and i said yes then i dump him because of that other reason whats going on i really love him but i know i need to get over him but i cant hes the noyl one whos never ....lied or hurt me and way possiable

2007-03-27 09:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by jessica 2

I've had a boyfriend, and we've been going out for a while now and I don't know how long it should be before he kisses me, or I kiss him.

2007-03-27 09:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by greasefrenchie1 1

I need to know what turns you on.. I want to impress someone.. please help!!!

2007-03-27 09:29:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

they've been together just over 2 yrs they have a child together but he said he wants to leave her and i feel the same as him we've liked each other since the first time we seen each other ..... help!!!

2007-03-27 09:28:24 · 27 answers · asked by kez 1

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 14, and we're in the early stage of our relationship at day 6!!
When i clasp his fingers, his fingers are always loose, i prefure holding hands to hugging!
When he hugs me, we walk or stand still and he'll put his arm around the top of my back near my shoulder (you know where) And i dont know what to do, i put my arm around his, but its occward and feels really weird, what can i do? When he hugs me what should i do?

2007-03-27 09:28:11 · 15 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1

2007-03-27 09:27:24 · 25 answers · asked by jazmine 2

Hello and i am very mad because at school there are these brats that make up rumors about my friend and I. And clearly we never harmed them or anything!! Then today the leader of the crew brats were all nice to us, like they were so nice!!! now should i hang out with them since they were nice or still leave them behind and keep things like they were?

2007-03-27 09:27:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

and plus , one night on msn she has good convos with me and tell me to put her in my msn name but then the next min she takes me out hers and bearly talks ?
does anyone know what this is?
and shes shy in person?

2007-03-27 09:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I talked to a friend about his bestfriend whom I have a huge crush on, and my friend said that he'd talk to his friend for me and well I maters into my own hands and called the guy and left him a voice mail asking him if he wanted to hang out and though he was busy he said he tried calling back 2xs and that he put my number in his phone... so do I wait and wonder or ask agian in like a week?

2007-03-27 09:25:54 · 5 answers · asked by JCHSpanthergirl 2

Okay so theres this new guy and he treats me so great. I think hes wonderful and attractive but i still have feelings for my ex. Even though my ex wants nothing to do with me, im still holding on to the feelings i have for him. I've tried so hard to let go and sometimes i get better at it but then i see my ex and the feelings come back. I feel like im ruining my new relationship with the new guy even though he doesnt kno about my ex. i want to start something with the new guy but im afraid i would just be hurting him and me. what should i do?

2007-03-27 09:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex is in prision and we have been broken up for 7 years, he has been there for a year now. I have been happily married for 5 years to my husband, but this weekend my ex sent me a letter saying he needs someone to talk to while hes in jail, that he needs my help. He hasnt sent me a letter since hes been there and just sends one out of the blue, what should I do, I still care for him but not in love with him.

2007-03-27 09:24:22 · 14 answers · asked by centwatson 2

Ok I have a major crush on this guy at my school and I'm friends with him but he has no idea I like him! But I was just about to make my move but he asked out my Best friend and she wasn't going to go out with him because I liked him so I told her it was alright but I really don't like the idea to much and besides I think my crushes Best friend likes me and he's nice and cute and all but he's not my crush oh my god I need advice!!!!!!

2007-03-27 09:23:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes I get so spastic I can't stand it, and the thing is that I worry too much what the guy thinks, or I always worry if I'm doing too much or too little, or saying the wrong things. But I think the reason is that I want to have a steady relationship again, and I probably won't rest until I'm in one again. I've been without a steady guy for 2 years, although I was in a casual relationship for over a year, just ended about 6 months ago because he had to move back home. So..whenever a new guy comes into the picture, I always worry if I become too forward or scare them away, by what I say or how I react to things. I don't know why I get like this, but I need help! I think I'm high strung or something, or a perfectionist? Like I need to know right then & there if he's interested kinda thing. What's wrong with me? =( I think the casual sex relationship messed me up for some reason.

2007-03-27 09:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-27 09:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by angel 6

Hi I am 12 and I am skinny and for some reason I cant eat! I am never hungry anymore I have talked to my mom she doesnt know we went to the doctor they think I need to force myself to eat but I cant! and I am 12 and I way 89 pounds from not being able to eat! what should I do?!?!

2007-03-27 09:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by ilovemissduff 1

for some reason i feel more naturally attracted to white men, than black men, i dont like feeling this way i feel like i should like my race of men equally if not more than any other race. i dont know hot to make sense of how i feel, i think it is because of the really bad experience i had with a black man, my 40 yr old cousin was molesting me and what nott when i was lil girl. maybe this has scarred me in different ways. i thought i was fine and wasnt traumatized from the situation. maybe i have been this whole time. can anyone help me????

2007-03-27 09:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this boy he likes me and hes retarted like really not the mean way and he stalks me if i jump on the trampoline hell just come over and he always asks me what im doing and he keeps asking me out i say no he DOENST GET IT!

2007-03-27 09:22:07 · 1 answers · asked by lucky 1

Okay here it goes, Im in high school and i have this situation. I have a boyfriend and we have been toghther for about have a year now, And before you say that its to young to be saying you have a bf, 1st of all its just puppy love( but not in my eyes), and 2nd of all its not about that. What it is about, its this boy at school, and he use to like one of my friends, so since i knew her he always came to me for adivice. But the he told me he liked me. I told him no because my friend liked him to. Ever since then he stop for a while then he started again. But thats when i start dating this boy that is doesnt go to my school, i mean that we are chilld hood friends. So he keeps on flirting and im trying not to hurt his feelings. I dont have feelings for him at all. I just want it to stop before it messes up my relationship. Plus on top of that HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, he claims to be happy but he keeps on asking me out and flirting, and im just tired of it, so all im asking is what should i do

2007-03-27 09:20:52 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley P 2

I'm a white guy, but I go nuts for African and Latina women with junk in the trunk....what happened to me?

2007-03-27 09:20:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Took a girl out on Sunday for a outing..word date was no used. Thought it went well apart from a few silences. next week we are both off college. when do i call her and ask what she is doing next tuesday or wedensday as i can only manage those days. or does it seem like i am pestering her? shes shy so i am doing the chasing

2007-03-27 09:20:22 · 18 answers · asked by Lanny 1

help i think ive got feelings still for my ex and when i dumped her which was 6 days :S i think.
i think ive still got feelings for her but she has a new bf i dont know what to do.
like half my brain is telling m find another girl the other is saying ask her again but shes with a boyfriend and am getting upset and depressed because of that and am upset about that she used to trust me and stuff but know she doesnt she trusts this other guy.
also i kinda thought she was cheating on me

Help what do i do?

2007-03-27 09:19:30 · 5 answers · asked by C 4

heres the deal.....I met this guy we hung out it was cool started to get close one night we messed around almost had sex but, was interrupted. planned to see each other the next day. He called we made the plans & were supposed to met up in the evening an hour before I went to the store & ran in to him, his Brother & a girl which I found out right away that was his girl(it was obvious) I just kinda looked & walked away. 3 days later he called & said that he was breaking it off with her. I said don't call me again. 2 months have gone by & I still see them every now & then together. But, we ran in to each other 2 1/2 wks .When we talked he said that he really had started to have feelings for me & he was sorry for what happened. he called later that day I didnt answer but, really wanted to! But, I think it is best for me not to pursue him & want to forget about the Impossible. Any suggestions.......(they are not together since the"girl" is dating a friend of mine)

2007-03-27 09:19:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i REALLY NEED to say somthing to the boy that I like , any suggestions?

2007-03-27 09:18:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-27 09:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Graham 2

Ok so me & my ex were together for 2 years and a little more . we were soooooo goood together and i had always been the one to instigate the fights in our relationship. now looking back i relaize this, but the problem is he says he wont give me another chance. since we broke up in september, i can honestly say i have really changed, though he wont talk to me, just once in a while & when i bring back things, he gets mad and says he cant hear this . well, his birthday is on april 1st & im going to send him a card and a CD of songs that we both used to like and listen to together becuase he always wanted me to buRn him a CD but i never did. i realllyy want him backk . and i know its my fault. hes so hard headed and says he will not give me another chance. i don't know what to do he was my first love & everything & after being together for a while, i can not forget him, ever. is this stupid? what should i do? help. anyone! i feel hopeless.

2007-03-27 09:17:00 · 27 answers · asked by babyz a queen ♥ 1