I broke up with my ex of 5yrs last year cuz he cheated on me. It's been almost a year since we broke up with him. (we were still seeing each other till three months ago).
I know that I don't wanna get back with him. I never wanna see him either. I don't love him. But I recently heard that he has a girlfriend now. I was really sad when I heard about it. Maybe I'm not happy because he's happy.
Do I still have a feeling toward him? I wanna forget about him completely.
Also, I'm dating with this guy whom I met on myspace. We're dating but not serious. I'd never met anyone from online. I'd never had this kind of relationship either. I was always serious with my ex. But this time, I know for sure that he is not the right person. But I'm still dating I guess cuz I'm kinda lonely. Same as him. but I feel guilty about that too. none of my friends know him.
I really don't know what to do... Should I stop dating with the guy? How can I forget my ex? I don't wanna think about him anymore...
2007-03-27 09:32:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you remember your ex remember what a cheating jerk he was and why you broke up with him in the 1st place! Be glad that he's found some one else, to cheat on.
If your not into the guy your dating now, then stop dating him and find someone you like better. THe right guy is out there for you, but you wont find him, if your tying yourself down with people you don't even care about! you know it's not a bad thing to be single and free for awhile. Stop obsessing about the past and get one with the future.
2007-03-27 09:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly I kicked my ex to the curb a year ago. Last night I once again thought about her. I hate her but she still enters my thoughts. You can't stop thing about a person that you had strong feelings for. You can learn from what happened in the relationship and move on. As for the guy your just dating. I think it's time for you to really move on. Find someone that you can be serious aabout. I'll tell you what I learned from my ex. Trust my gut and to want someone that is completly honest. If the truth hurts, I'd rather get hurt by it than feel good about a lie.
2007-03-27 16:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to date other people period this won't get easier until you change your frame of mind honey
Date someone else whatever your method just be careful and mindful of predators. I recently got out of a bad relationship of 3 years and barely stopped complete contact I began to date again and found someone who satisfys my needs in such a way I feel like I'm dreaming...he's the total opposite and key element older than me by 7 years.
Young guys take for granted good women and as they get older depending on how they treated their women it will come to haunt them by their children or rotten women.
Girl MOve on and don't look back if you live everyday like today how far would you truly get tommorrow in 6 months thats when I decided to make a change and I am extremely happy.
2007-03-27 16:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is said all the time, but it really does just take time. Sometimes changing your surroundings helps, too. If you can't move, then rearrange your home. Try to meet new people (just friends!) so you won't have to spend your time with those who know your situation. Take up a new hobby. Your feelings are perfectly normal, and it is always hard when an ex moves on. If you continue to have a lot of depression, it may help you to see a counselor.
2007-03-27 16:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can forget about him by spending time with friends, being with people other than dates. Forget dating for now cause the new guy is going to remind you of the ex when he does something like him or isn't as good as ur ex was stay away from the dating world for a lil' while and say hello to socializing!
2007-03-27 16:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by foxy8907 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably won't forget about him. but keep dating the guy you are dating. Keep having fun, think about you, make yourself happy. The guy is a jerk if he has a girl already anyways. You sound like you deserve way more than a guy like that. Keep seeing the guy you met online, you never know, he maight just turn out to be the man of your dreams.
2007-03-27 16:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by dj_ar_bis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant really forget. I understand what you r goin thro.
But truth is..someone who has been in your life that long..
and possibly changed your life will not be forgotten.
Don't forget him, there was a reason you stayed together
for so long. But learn from this. Dont stop dating or else you
wont get over this feeling.
2007-03-27 16:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by A P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you think about is your ex then obviously you still have feelings toward this guy... also you shouldn't just go out with a guy just because you're lonely!! If he cheated he probably learned his lesson and personally I think y'all should get back together! GOOD LIUCK!
2007-03-27 16:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Curious Georgie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first,i think u should break up wit the boy u met on line,because jumpin into a new relationship aint gone solve nun...
its ok to be lonely 4 a while so that you can figure out what you want.do things with your friends or family to occupy yourself.
2007-03-27 16:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Exercise or get into new activities with buds to keep your mind off of that loser.
2.Don't be eager to talk to him.
3.Don't stalk him or his girlfriend or become a crazy EX.
4.Act like you could care less about him or his girlfriend.
5.He will find out that You are the one he wants.
6.MOVE ON.Even though it is hard and tough,you have to do this.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-27 16:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by jada o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋