I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 14, and we're in the early stage of our relationship at day 6!!
When i clasp his fingers, his fingers are always loose, i prefure holding hands to hugging!
When he hugs me, we walk or stand still and he'll put his arm around the top of my back near my shoulder (you know where) And i dont know what to do, i put my arm around his, but its occward and feels really weird, what can i do? When he hugs me what should i do?
2007-03-27 09:28:11 · 15 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him exactly how u feel. It's just that simple!!! Good Luck!!
2007-03-27 09:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by N0+ 3@$!Ly &R0]{3n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not ready to become intimate with your b/f. When in doubt don't do it. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then try it some other time. For now, just hang out and have fun. Don't put all this pressure on yourself, you're so young. You can focus on other things like watching the sunset, walk or jog on the beach or a park, go to the movies, zoo, or visit a relative.
2007-03-27 09:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by sugarplum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's going to be awkward. How much experience can you possible have at 14? Don't answer that. Relax. The reality of the situation is that this is most likely practice for more meaningful and serious relationships when you both are older and your perspectives on things change. Be honest with him and tell him what you prefer. He is probably new at this too besides what he may think.
2007-03-27 09:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Will H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want that he would be more boyfriendy with you well maybe hes just trying to not to put you any situation where you would feel uncomfortable and heres an easy thing to do what he hugs you you hug him back and give him a kiss it doesnt have to be a big kiss but just a small one to show him that its ok hor him to kiss you or put his hand around your waist besides its only day 6 give it time
2007-03-27 09:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what comes naturally. If you let your hand go loose, then maybe he will grab it. When he puts his arm around your shoulders, put your around his waist an have a cuddle like that. Good luck!
2007-03-27 10:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youve not been used to hugging it will seem strange, we're not all tactile. don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do, but if you want to hug him back, put you arms around him too. if you're not ready for this kind of contact, take your time, there's no rules about how quickly you have to show affection in this way, relax and do what you feel happy with
2007-03-27 09:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walking while hugging requires a lot of synchronisation... Just tell him you'd rather walk hand in hand... If you find it hard to tell him just say you have a bad neck or something like that...
Good luck
2007-03-27 09:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Pois Chiche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 12 but iv all ready kissed a boy in forth grade well when he hugs you hug him back not har but not soft just right. make him want you more then anythin . hey good luck
2007-03-27 09:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hug him back, hugs you'll find when it's not puppy love are the best thing ever, if he's touching you were you don't want to be touched tell him how it is have a back bone girl!
2007-03-27 09:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by foxy8907 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he puts him arm over your shoulder....put your arm round his waist..its much more comfy and easy to walk...if u try and put ur arms round his shoulders at the same time u will just look like your wrestling!!
2007-03-27 09:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋