Singles & Dating - 2 March 2007

i've never been in a relationship and i want to be in one. i want to have my feelings returned by someone that i care for. it constantly tears at me because i feel like guys are incapable of truly liking me.

i share these feelings and others with my friends and even the guys i like. i dont like keeping things in when people ask "how has your day been?". i would rather say "it was bad" and go on about it than like and say "good!".

is sharing my feelings so openly to people good? im wondering if i should just keep all my feelings in and just lie to people so they dont have to hear of the saddness i feel inside.

if you did not know me personally, you wouldnt think i was so negative about things but no guy has ever liked me back enough to ask me out. i'm attractive and i like to stay in shape so im guessing its my personality turns guys off.

2007-03-02 20:27:34 · 5 answers · asked by cellie_mania 3

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year. We have great chemistry and really enjoy each other while making love. The problem is that I always have to initiate it. She brags about how much fun we have, but yet she doesnt initiate. I have waited a week without initiating (about all I could stand) and havent gotten a response. I want to work on this but I dont know how to tell her without hurting her. I need her to learn how to turn me on and initiate.

2007-03-02 20:27:31 · 6 answers · asked by Jimmy H 1

2007-03-02 20:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by Sara007 5

She kept chatting with him for long until they fall for one another ... at same time hiding her real picture stating that she was not to trust him since before, she wants to show him her real one.. what would be expected reaction?

2007-03-02 20:22:24 · 3 answers · asked by Sara007 5

At first I came on kind of strong and it spooked her and there were some hard feelings exchanged. I apologized to her for making her feel uncomfortable. Everything is finally ok between us, we have a strong friendship and growing stronger. Now what I want to know is, how can I tell if it will ever be anything more? I want it to be but she just doesn't see me that way. Please any info you have would be very helpful.

2007-03-02 20:16:40 · 5 answers · asked by Matt from Ga 2

i've been dating a man who is 15 years older than me. we used to work at the same restaurant, i left a couple of weeks ago. a female customer who knows both of us, and is aware we are together started coming in about a month ago. neither of us had met her before this. he told me tonight that she has kissed/pecked him on the lips when she leaves the bar a few times. i said that hearing that made me uncomfortable and hurt my feelings a bit. i further explained that i was primarily offended that she would take this liberty with him knowing full well that he is my boyfriend. he told me i was naive, silly and juvinile. he refused to even acknowledge the fact that my feelings were hurt. i explained that i would never behave that way with another girls boyfriend. there was no crying involved. am i wrong for not approving of this girls behavior? oh, she has also come to him crying stating that she "loves sex". the whole thing doesn't sit well with me.

2007-03-02 20:15:46 · 11 answers · asked by eijan 1

ok..i am in 7th grade and i like this guy in 8th grade he is a total player but he could have changed.i called him and told him that i liked him [stupid i know] and my friend asked him if he though i was cute he said yes and then she asked him...what would he do if i asked him out? he said he didn't know but im not sure if i should...i like him alot and he always stares at me, when he does i smile. he always flirts with me in the classes i DO have with him...I also sent him a valentine,he told me thanx and then walked away,im totally confussed plz help.

2007-03-02 20:15:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

story or whatever he will cut me off literally mid sentence with a story of his own and this really annoys me. when i say hey you just totally cut me off thats so rude-he goes.." i am just interacting with you that is what people do in conversations" whats his problem?

2007-03-02 20:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by darkling 5

I told him I felt that and saw it in your eyes. We are close friends and after yesterday's confession of his apparent love to me. I feel something weird today, I am so shy to meet him in person, though I like him much. I was fluent regarding lots of topics with him. Will I be so taken aback for long or what?

2007-03-02 20:11:58 · 3 answers · asked by Sara007 5

They are a fashionable crowd and live lavishly. They are also pretty conservative at the same time. I don't know where I'll fit in with all these, even though I'm fairly conservative myself. My family is extremely simple, yet respectable. But, there is a major difference between us. Also, their son is about a decade older than me, so will I look like a kid? I am just out of my teens......

He isn't the only child, and his siblings and their spouses are also older than me. How should I act around them?

2007-03-02 20:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-02 20:08:44 · 5 answers · asked by Troy & Aliya's Mommy 3

im in 7th grade and i like this guy but i dont know if he likes me. he thinks im cute but...........i cant tell. he stares at me in class and than smiles at me. i smile back but idk if he likes me he just broke up with a girl that he liked for a long time and he said he doesnt like her anymore. does he like? what should i do?

2007-03-02 20:07:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-02 20:06:42 · 7 answers · asked by *Grace* 3

There's this guy that I've been liking for quite a while now.

I have him in one of my classes but we dont talk very much. The first time I spoke to him, was when he asked me a question about myself. and that was pretty much it. I usually always run into him at school. and i catch him looking at me several times and even smiling at me.
Anyway, a couple of days ago, I was walking to my car after school and then I when i was about to walk into my car, I see him passing by and he was looking into the car and he saw me inside for like 2 seconds. I just looked at him in shock and just didnt move at all ( i know..pretty lame). And then after that he kept on walking and from the side mirror i was watching him walk and I saw him turn his back to me and looking at the car for quite a long time as if he was curious or something. And today, I actually wore make-up to school ( cuz i never do) and he looked at me all differently and he even smiled at me a few times.What does all of this mean?

2007-03-02 20:04:14 · 9 answers · asked by maryflo 2

NOT EASY LIKE PROMISCUOUS-PLEASE DON'T GET THIS TWISTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-02 20:03:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. im 15 years old, and i really like this girl. and the problem is, she will only like someone back if he says something right to her. and i don't know what it is. she says, if a guy truly loves me then he'll know what to say. it isn't something common like i love you, so it has to be something special. i have no clue what it is. i need help.

2007-03-02 20:03:14 · 3 answers · asked by Chris T 1

My crush came to visit me Wednesday...what he said kinda sounds interesting.
He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."


How could that statement be hypothetical?
Was he suggesting that he was "eyeing" my bed?
Guys, if it were you...what would the statement mean?
Is he slowly seducing me?

A couple of weeks ago, he mentioned that I gave him and erection. When I asked if I made him hot, he said the conversation did.

What's going on with this guy?

2007-03-02 20:03:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because of i loved a guy for past 4 years but when i proposed him , he degraded and insulted me that he likes to marry a girl whose father should be too rich but he is upper middle class equal to me only

2007-03-02 20:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-02 20:00:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

some people say that maybe he thought i was alright with it, or seemed that way, which is not the case...before it happened i scratched at his hands to get his attention because i couldn't move or talk (i "froze"). i told him i was scared. then he told me to open my legs and tried to pry them apart. he told me to do so again. that's when i left my body. he tried to penetrate on his own but he was starting to hurt me. so i helped him. all throughout, after i got back in my body, i ket telling him to stop but he kept putting me in differnt positions and kept going...do you think he knew what he was doing?

2007-03-02 20:00:50 · 15 answers · asked by ryce_krispy 1

He likes me i like him too but im a little scared to tell him I love Him I'am only 13 years old please help me please!!!!!!!!

2007-03-02 19:59:24 · 3 answers · asked by Gabriela 1

well some people think im crazy for thinking this deffinatly my dad.But the girl i like has two kids one is 10 and the other one 8. I have never had kids yet im 22 and its something i have never experienced being a halfway dad I say that because im not there real dad. can someone here tell me what i can do to please the girl i like plus the kids she has. something that will touch her heart.
just when i think i know women theres still mutch more to learn but im paitent.

2007-03-02 19:56:21 · 5 answers · asked by joshherlein1 1

I dated a guy from Dec. 15th to Feb. 17th of this year, and we were physically intimate also (he said it was more than just sex between us, but then he said he did not want a serious relationship). Anyway he dumped me after 2 months (claiming there was no one else), saying he had developed no feelings for me whatsoever (yet he continued to be physically intimate with me up until Feb. 17th), and stated that he develops feelings for someone in 2 weeks to 1 month usually.

2007-03-02 19:55:33 · 3 answers · asked by CINDY 1

2007-03-02 19:54:30 · 4 answers · asked by maxine 4

2007-03-02 19:53:11 · 9 answers · asked by kvcreom 4

hay right well to be stright im pregnant and the dad is my cousins best mate and my other cousins on-off bf! and to make matters worse im only 14 and hes 19!!!!!! all i rember from the night is him saying 'come on princess amy get you back home but frst,get you some air.' and then walking home i also rember him saying 'can i ask you somthing......' then my mind went blank and the next thing i rember is im at my cousin and his appartment waking up the next day totaly naked! (in his bed so you and i can guess what went on)!!!!!!!!!!!! but i no that night id had alot to drink, i dont usually drink but i did this night for some strange reasion!!!!!!! and now im pregnant @ 14 and need help!!!! i have told a different cousin and he said that what ever i want to do he'll help me as much as posiple!!!!!!!! please help me!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-02 19:52:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Basically out of extreme shyness and few experiences these are the reasons.

2007-03-02 19:52:27 · 2 answers · asked by Sara007 5

2007-03-02 19:43:49 · 4 answers · asked by Sara007 5

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends, such as daily chatting, or texting. Anyways, she always brings up a situation where guys (many of them recently) confesses they likes her and she alway tells me she blows them off. She even goes as far as pasting her conversations in a chatbox for me to read. She has claimed that i am like a best friend to her. Why is she doing this?

I feel like this is a warning (like dun ruin the friendship)? I do see her as a good friend though.

2007-03-02 19:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

im 14 and iv been going you with my boyfriend for 13 months and im thinking of sleeping with him. He'll be my first but im not sure.i trust him with all my heart but part of me really wants too but the other half is saying not to. i dont want to let him down... wat should i do?

2007-03-02 19:41:05 · 19 answers · asked by Lost 2