My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year. We have great chemistry and really enjoy each other while making love. The problem is that I always have to initiate it. She brags about how much fun we have, but yet she doesnt initiate. I have waited a week without initiating (about all I could stand) and havent gotten a response. I want to work on this but I dont know how to tell her without hurting her. I need her to learn how to turn me on and initiate.
2007-03-02 20:27:31 · 6 answers · asked by Jimmy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You now some ting?? You love her or no? If you love her, you shod stay and wait after her! Love is not mean gust sex is mean passion,trust and much understanding!!!!
2007-03-02 22:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Dya - The white Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so she enjoys sex... My bet... you give it to her too easily. Next time you are getting "warmed" up... stop.. and turn away. Get her hot, then pull away. Then after she pouts, go back and get her hotter... don't sleep with her, until she begs for it. Keep doing this off and on with her. The point is... to get her boiling point so hot, that just the mere sight of you, gets her wet. Then... she will intiate more sex than you might be able to give her. Telling a girl to be more aggressive when she doens't feel "compelled" to... is akin to nagging. Learn how to get her excited without pleasing her right away, without satisfying her to her fill until you feel she has earned it.... this ebb and flow always ends up with the girl being aggressive for you to ravish her.
2007-03-02 20:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by Samos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you foreplay?
Do you make it fun!
Does she have an orgasm?
Maybe she tells you that it was fun but don’t want to hurt your feelings or maybe you’re not pleasing her. Next time when you’re ready to play ask her what she likes focus on her First!
Do you use your fingers?
Make sure your nails are well manicured
Pleasing your partner should be your priority
2007-03-02 20:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by Just me! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so tell her...just come out say, "hun you should be more aggressive. tell me when ur horny. play with me, start kissing me...show me some affection." and then see what she has to say.
2007-03-02 20:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her
2007-03-02 20:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋