i've never been in a relationship and i want to be in one. i want to have my feelings returned by someone that i care for. it constantly tears at me because i feel like guys are incapable of truly liking me.
i share these feelings and others with my friends and even the guys i like. i dont like keeping things in when people ask "how has your day been?". i would rather say "it was bad" and go on about it than like and say "good!".
is sharing my feelings so openly to people good? im wondering if i should just keep all my feelings in and just lie to people so they dont have to hear of the saddness i feel inside.
if you did not know me personally, you wouldnt think i was so negative about things but no guy has ever liked me back enough to ask me out. i'm attractive and i like to stay in shape so im guessing its my personality turns guys off.
2007-03-02 20:27:34 · 5 answers · asked by cellie_mania 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's a time and a place for things like that... maybe guys are getting scared, thinking that you are dramatic, and high maintenance... weather you actually are or not.
I don't think you need to completely hide your feelings, but, you need to know the even balance.
and, about the wanting a relationship thing, the best thing would be to stop wanting it... I was always trying so hard to get a boyfriend, and all that ended up doing was getting me mixed up with all the wrong guys... Id either have to guys that treated me like crap, or the whiny little boobs, who would get pissed at me for not spending every waking minute with them...
as soon as I chilled out a little, and stopped searching for a boyfriend, and started working on becoming the type of person guys would want to date, that's when I met the love of my life.
2007-03-02 20:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best to be honest and people will enjoy your company... When someone asks how my day went i tell them if it wasnt so good. Ill say not too good today. I wouldnt go into detail... unless they asked me. Its not good to have pent up sad feelings inside its ALWAYS great to have someone to talk to it makes you feel a tiny bit better to know that someone else knows... hey if you ever want to tal I am a good listener and you can contact me via personal e mail addy it is misspookett@yahoo.com. I can talk to ya give my honest opinions and be of friendly advise if ya wish. :o) I am a honest person and am laid back down to earth kinda person... you could talk to me about anything. Talk about your feelings get them out... :o) val
2007-03-03 04:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by misspookett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl dont let those feelings be all tied up inside u ! let them out to someone who will actaully listen to u ! U want to tell someone how u feel by simply being comfortable around them ok ! well change ur personality then ! believe me guys will come to u but someitmes u have to flirt first then they do ok ! well i wish u the best !later!
2007-03-03 04:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No offense sweetie but maybe you come off as desperate. Just be yourself. No one can love you without you learning to love yourself fully first. This includes being content being alone. No man can fulfill you.
2007-03-03 04:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by ~Anna~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being so open will scare them and put them under pressure...save that stuff for your closest friend or two whom you trust.
2007-03-03 04:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋