If it is difficult to speak out your feelings, would you be doomed to suffer for long?

Question

Basically out of extreme shyness and few experiences these are the reasons.

Answer 1

Have you tried using more impersonal ways of communicating your feelings, like e-mail, instant messaging, SMS? Or are even these methods too difficult for you?

If so, work up the courage to drop lots of hints and communicate via some impersonal medium about your feelings.

Answer 2

Sounds like you are gearing up never to face what you already see as a down fall, and asking for reassurance that everything will be ok. Lack of experience is not a good excuse for not trying, or else... nothing will change for you. How do you feel deep down... do you long for love? Passion? Do you wish you could let your inhibitions go so you can finally feel alive? There are a million ways to get over this, but it is something you will HAVE to do... stop being afraid of it, and realize the joy and freedom of being in touch with yourself, and the connection that can be made with others far exceeds any pain you might encounter on the way. You must make a decision to change, and do everything you can to get over it. If there is someone in your life that is pushing you to this... else you might lose what you have with them if you don't open up... don't accept this ultimatum. Opening your feelings will ultimately, or unfortunately - depending on your opinions of the poor sap, be a benefit to all.. Mostly YOU... but not just to please this person or that... it's about YOU. This is about YOU coming alive.