I have this friend, a male friend, who I have been extremely close to for a very long time. He moved away while we were in high school, and we kind of dropped contact. I started dating someone that we both knew, and have been with this guy for 4 1/2 years now. I have a child with this guy, and we have been talking about getting married.
But recently, the first guy, my good friend, moved back closer and re-establisehd contact with me. After I started dating my boyfriend, he flat out forbid me to talk with my friend, so now for about two weeks, I've been 'going behind his back' and talking with my friend on the computer. I am very emotionally invested in my friend, going so far as to be disappointed when I sign on and he's not there to IM.
I recently heard the term 'emotional affair', and am not entirely sure what it means.
So I guess my question is am I having an emotional affair with my friend, or am I just talking to him secretly because my boyfriend doesn't like him?
2007-02-22
17:23:49
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eternal_phoenix_fire
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