2007-02-22 16:55:44 · 14 answers · asked by poonam b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he did it before he met you. Then it's ok. But make sure he love's you. Else say good bye...
And if he did it after he met you, straight away - BYE BYE...
:-)
2007-02-23 10:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poonam this is time of confusion especially in india culture where may be parents reject such disclose which now get from ur fiance by the way i m a young male 21 and try to analyse it
firstly try to look continuosly at his eyes when u meet him
secondly try pretend that u love him very much..and he is everything for u
thirdly he ask u questions why look u continuosly at his eye at that time realise him that u never encounter with any lover and u just encounted by him
fourthly try to peep into his heart by asking him to meet u whether u count that how many times he remember u in a day..
fifth if he loves u truly fogetting the old mater, he will pay attention towards ur desire and emotions.
if u want any more help i ever help u..........from ur dear and only true friends..
2007-02-23 09:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him 'ok i value ur honesty' n then dump him. seriously guys who are overly open about stuff n do that kind of stuff r the kind who will cheat on u when ur married n then tell u about it...as if that makes it any better.
its the bitter truth. n its a hard decision but years later u'll realise its the right decision to break off ur engagement. be a strong woman. be a tigress. ur sisters in the world r there for u.
2007-02-25 19:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by hollym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will definitely get furious, but since he is more fiance, I would like to hear what he has to see about it.
If it is un-intentionally (eg. drunk, one-night stand), I might choose to forgive him. But if it is intentioanlly, then I will leave him. Because, no matter how he promise, if he can do it once, he can do it twice (or even more, without you knowing). The feeling of insecurity on your side is the worst you can imagine after you get married with a man like this.
2007-02-23 01:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were u then i wud have forgiven him only when i am sure that NOW he loves ME only.I know its easy to preach but hard to follow.But just listen to ur heart.Only it can help u.Just think wat u wud have done if u come to know about it after ur marriage from somebody else? I think that he really loves you for he has taken the courageous effort to reveal the truth to you.My dear it requires quite courage to do so.Just keep urself in his place n then judge.But remember Forgive only if he loves you by heart passionately.best of luck!
2007-02-23 01:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by tamali_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My reaction would be "Buh bye". I won't tolerate a cheater, sorry. He's gotta go. If he'll cheat on you before you're married, odds are great that he'll do it after the marriage. A piece of paper isn't going to stop him.
2007-02-23 00:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
spent the night ..as in having sex with her ? ...if thats the case i guess although i'll be hurt , i'll still give him a chance to explain himself , then i'll decide if i want to end the enagement ..... but for sure , the marriage wont be soon
2007-02-23 01:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd punch the f***er in the face!,.. before kneeing him in the balls and telling to pick up his s**t and leave or if he prefers i can remove his things for him (if he's okay with them being a little broken, burnt etc..)
get rid of him! you don't honestly want to marry this guy! be thankful it happened before you married the creep - at least now you don't need to hace a divorce to your name..
2007-02-23 01:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by StockRdHappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy his tale and let he enjoy your tale
2007-02-23 14:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am a man
2007-02-23 03:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋