Singles & Dating - 20 February 2007

I understand that young men like dating older women. I'm interested in a 21 y.o. guy and I'm 42. I don't have anyone to have this discussion with, so I'm asking Y/A. This man has never dated a white female or many females at all. He had one girlfriend. He knows I date black men. He even asked me..."You like them black boys don't you?" I said "Yep!". We work together and talk casually like that. He's been to my house twice. This week, he showed a slight sexual interest in me. Then he came down with the flu and I haven't seen him much. Now I'm "hanging" and I need your opinions. Would a young black man date a white female in her forties? BTW, I'm a comedian who sings rap songs...and he loves my music. So I'm not like some old lady!

2007-02-20 19:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a affair type relationship for about 4 years and I've come to love this man, however, he has treated me just as I was....a secret. He never introduced me to his immediate family, although I've introduced him and he has forgotten to call me on my birthday since 2005. Valentine's and Christmas he doesn't even bother to call either. He is a 37 yr old single man and I am 32...althought I still a somewhat relationship with my son's father., I still simingly Love this man unconditionally. Also, he had some very intimate conversation with other females via Myspace.....
Am I a fool for Love? Should I just forget this man who I planned on spending the rest of my life with? Why do I love him so much
despite his obvious insensitivity.
Please Help me

2007-02-20 19:26:51 · 3 answers · asked by mizzbee1975 1

2007-02-20 19:23:50 · 4 answers · asked by mona m 1

so my bf and i have been together for over a year and we talk on the phone for atleast a hour EVERY NIGHT! and we have been fighting lately and he said that he thinks we shouldent talk every night cause he thinks we r to attached. but he still loves me right?? can someone explain to me y he wouldent wanna talk as much???

2007-02-20 19:23:45 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 1

2007-02-20 19:21:53 · 12 answers · asked by hummydoc 1

i dont realy get pleasure when we have sex. hes a lot smaller than others i have seen. is there anything i could do to make it feel better or should i tell him?

2007-02-20 19:19:22 · 11 answers · asked by brittany w 1

I've talked to this guy, he knows how I feel about him and he turned me down twice. Now how am I gong to get rid of this intence physical atraction I feel towards him? How do I avoid crossing his path in public places?

2007-02-20 19:18:22 · 9 answers · asked by teetalla 1

ok well im really paranoid.
like if that my bf is going to cheat on me and im trying not to be but yeah what are some ways i couldnt be so paranoid???
i just know his a big flirt and he dont mean to be its just apart of him and his personaltiy...

2007-02-20 19:12:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The boss is pushing for you to take one of his daughters on a date. Of course you want to get in good with the boss, so you agree. Which daughter would you choose?

A. The overweight daughter with a great personality. She's intelligent, considerate, and fun to be with.

OR

B. The daughter with the great bod. She snooty, wants to be pampered, and pouts if she doesn't get her own way.

Which is it guys? Great personality or great body. Can't have them both.. not for this question anyway.

2007-02-20 19:07:21 · 20 answers · asked by Speedy 6

Okay so Lent is here....something i really love to do is Drink up with my friends! whether its at parties, hangouts, clubs/bars, or just a little get together with people. I think it's gonna be really hard just because spring is just around the corner...what do you think? should i do it?!!!

2007-02-20 19:07:14 · 9 answers · asked by Miguel Angel 1

over the summer i REALLY liked this guy and he liked me to
and honestly it was probably the closest ive ever gotten to love
and over the summer
a LOT if rumors started
and we stoped likeing each other
and now i think he hates me
but when ever i see him or are around him it is really akward
and i know it is for him to
like i can just tell
and he always ignores me
and when ever i do see him
i think about how everything used to be and kinda start liking him again
what should i do?

2007-02-20 19:06:27 · 4 answers · asked by ceceee 1

have you ever wanted to be with another woman?

2007-02-20 19:06:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my bf are seeing each other for 7 yrs. He already introduced my to his family and relatives which is same with mine. We argue most of the time but we see to it that we dont go to sleep with unresolved cases and fix what we argued about.As one of my bad trait, I always provoke him for a break up everytime I'm annoyed which he always disagrees and says that break up is not a solution for our problem.Im a very paranoid and jealous gf not calling or texting me is a big thing, i also open his emails, messenger and even read messages his cellphone.For 7 yrs privacy is not an issue with us but we always end up fighting when I read messages that were suspicious. After a big fight I decided to broke up with him which he AGREED!I was really shocked! After 4 months of not seeing each other I miss him and realized that I LOVE HIM and decided to win him back.But he refused to accept me saying that he's not yet ready to commit.He said he's still thinking and only time will tell about our fate

2007-02-20 19:02:32 · 4 answers · asked by silly girl.... 1

If a guys know ur name,but u didnt tell him ur name..Then how would u react?If he constantly keeps looking at you,how would u react??does he like u??im very confused..i like him too..I mean like i didnt tell him my name but he already knows my name..how come???

2007-02-20 18:59:55 · 12 answers · asked by Stacy M 1

why do girls do it?
think its insane

2007-02-20 18:59:16 · 12 answers · asked by king of spain 3

2007-02-20 18:56:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

to you?

2007-02-20 18:55:44 · 2 answers · asked by DropTopAle 2

...and I don't mean in the crotch, I mean if she touched your arm or something but you knew she might like you?
What if you hadn't known her before until that time/conversation? Would you start to like her a little?

2007-02-20 18:52:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 18:50:25 · 14 answers · asked by Isaac Newton (back yet again) 1

2007-02-20 18:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by latino till the d 1

if you are with another girl and your boyfriend doesn't know about it?

2007-02-20 18:46:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

On valentine's day, i confessed to this girl that i like her. I bought her a heart cushion, and a flower. before i even gave it to her, she sort of guessed that i liked her. I'm malay, and she' s chinese. the two of us are close, and always hang out with each other and our group at school. (you can say she's a close friend of mine.)

after confessing, she has started avoiding me, and so have the rest of my clique. the air has changed way to much. now, it's DAMN freaky.

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO MOVE ON?

2007-02-20 18:45:58 · 5 answers · asked by Ferhan S 1

Here is the situation: I am currently "talkin" to this guy that I have known for 11 years and been friends with for about 5. He has always had a crush on me, but I never looked at him that way until recently. Now we have been talkin for a couple months and it is awesome. I am so attracted to him and he is such a good kisser, and we have made very clear how we feel about each other...how attracted we are to each other...how we miss each other when we aren't together etc. BUT...for some reason...we haven't had sex. I know we both want to, but when it comes down to it, neither of us will make the move. Is it better for us to just wait and it will begin to feel natural? What can we do to ease the transition and minimize the pressure? Any ideas why a guy would not want to have sex with someone he cares about and is extremely attracted to supposedly? (I have never heard of that)...lol

2007-02-20 18:44:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 18:42:56 · 13 answers · asked by mario r 1

OK WELL I AM MEETING HIM AT SCHOOL SHOULD I TELL HIM FACE TO FACE OR IN A NOTE? WHAT ABOUT IF HE TELLS HIS FRIENDS WHO CAN BE JERKS AND THEY START RUMORS?SO HOW SHOULD I TELL HIM IF I AM AT SCHOOL????

2007-02-20 18:42:09 · 7 answers · asked by inkspell102 1

my ex's girl cheated on him with no fewer than seven guys. im not sure of the currant status of their relationship, his myspace says single, hers says in a relationship, and when i asked him about it he said he didnt know what the hell was going on...they are attempting reconciliation, initiated by her. i know this is a bad idea, because she also lied and told people they had broken up when they were really engaged. i firmly believe she is just in it for the money. i just dont know how relevent my advice is going to be, given he is my ex. what do i do? do i stand back and let fate take its toll? its breaking my heart to see him make such a bad decision... im also confused as to why im one of five people who knows every detail of the situation. this is the most complicated thing ive ever dealt with. its in my nature to try and help people, so telling him to bugger off would hurt me more than dealing with it.

2007-02-20 18:42:06 · 0 answers · asked by Ashley M 7

1.what type of food,snacks would increase your chances of getting tall?

2.what are robots made out of?

3.can someone pls spell out what "c" word means in 30rock show?

4.does anyone know how to unlock players in the mortal kombat deception game?(have basically finished the game before and nothing happened unlike other games)

5.when one says i know the rules of engagement what does it really mean?

am sure these question are not in anyway connected to singles and dating section,but your answers are really needed and appreciated

2007-02-20 18:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys point of view plz

2007-02-20 18:31:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-20 18:31:30 · 9 answers · asked by christian b 3

i like this guy ( 2 years) younger than me, he very nice to me..
but in the same time my close friend always tell me that he always dream of this guy and talk about him proberly she like him even though she often tells me that the guy is not the type of guy she want......( we all work in the same company)

2007-02-20 18:29:39 · 4 answers · asked by doremon 1