2007-02-20 18:50:25 · 14 answers · asked by Isaac Newton (back yet again) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Proud, but not egotistical.
2007-02-20 18:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well confidence shouldn't be confused with arrogance. If a guy is too into himself (always checking himself out, talking about himself, self-conscious about his appearance...) it's very unattractive. Confidence means being sure of yourself, being able to laugh at yourself in an embarrassing situation, and not really caring what others think of you (doing you're own thing and being proud of it). Hope that helps...
2007-02-20 19:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Deena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone who won't burden them with too many indecisions. I don't know, what would you like to do? Just say, "I would love to take you to dinner. Do you prefer Japanese food or Sandwich and salad? You have given her an easy choice. If she says that she doesn't know. You sound confident when you say, "I know a great family restaurant with some unique decorations. I'd love to see what you think of it."
Value her decision, but don't make her make your decisions. I think that's right. Let me go ask my wife.
2007-02-20 18:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are looking for someone who loves them for who they are, and who is accepting of everything the girl has. He should be nice, and are never ashamed of the girl they are with. You should treat her with respect, and she will do the same. You will be seen by others as a confident, nice guy.
2007-02-20 18:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Elliegirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
someone who is NOT a jerkward that's full of himself. But someone who is friendly, outgoing, sociable, believes in himself as well as others. That's the key part- reaching out to others, not just being in love with himself all the time.
2007-02-20 18:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jae Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What they basically mean is they want the guy to take the lead in all matters except when they dont want them too..
Remember you are talking about girls here...
2007-02-20 18:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl likes a guy that is reassured in his actions, phsical apperance, spirituality, and aspirations. girls typically like a guy to know who he is in the world, I have a friend, a guy, he is very self-conscious and girls dont like him because he wont ask them out. ask girls out and make it known that ur available and hungry for sum luvin...but WARNINGS: DONT BE TOO COCKY [TURNNNN OFF!!!], DONT ASK OUT EVERY RANDOM GIRL YOU SEE BE SURE YOU LIKE THEM!!!
if the girl says she likes a guy with confidence then think, what could she mean? is it that your shy? is it that your self-conscious? or is it that you tend to act fake, but everyone can c it? if you can think of any of these as an answer-FIX IT! :
ex:if ur shy, talk to more girls, flirt, make a joke around girls, guys, teachers, family, ANYONE CAN BUILD UR CONFIDENCE!
ex:if ur self-conscious, then think, what about you don't u like? is it ur skin, clean it, ur hair, get it cut, is it ur clothes? buy some more or make sum alterations! is it ur grades? STUDY is it ur attitude on life? CHANGE IT is it ur self? u r hu u r buddy, ur just ggoing to have to love yourself and find ways to be happier!
ex:if they think ur fake, then be real, be who u r, be hu u wanna be-not wat others wanna c
girls like guys hu cover these guidelines, best of luck to u
2007-02-20 19:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by nicole l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that does his best in everything.
A guy that will tell the truth.
A guy that does'nt degrade himself.
A guy that knows the correct time to humble himself.
A guy that lives by the "Golden Rule".
I'm talking about a man...not a boy.
2007-02-20 19:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone that knows who they are.. Someone that is happy with who they are.. High self esteem and the happy go lucky kind of guy is what we are talking about..
2007-02-20 18:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Chloe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me, I like when a man know exactly what he want and pursue it.
So, I don't like a man who is passive and can not make a decision.
2007-02-20 18:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the spirit of never give up in a guy
2007-02-20 18:53:30 · answer #11 · answered by i love u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋