I was in a affair type relationship for about 4 years and I've come to love this man, however, he has treated me just as I was....a secret. He never introduced me to his immediate family, although I've introduced him and he has forgotten to call me on my birthday since 2005. Valentine's and Christmas he doesn't even bother to call either. He is a 37 yr old single man and I am 32...althought I still a somewhat relationship with my son's father., I still simingly Love this man unconditionally. Also, he had some very intimate conversation with other females via Myspace.....
Am I a fool for Love? Should I just forget this man who I planned on spending the rest of my life with? Why do I love him so much
despite his obvious insensitivity.
Please Help me
2007-02-20 19:26:51 · 3 answers · asked by mizzbee1975 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on forget about him
He was only using you
He wasnt insensitve he was just being a man who use and abuse woman for their own pleasure
He only enjoyed you he doesnt love you
2007-02-20 21:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fail to see how you really love him if you have something still going on with your child's father, no matter how menial it may be. You have no right to be upset with this guy for not giving what you expect because you are not giving your all to him. How can you be mad at him for talking to other women when you are in a relationship with another man? This has very little to do with him being insensitive. And really what did you expect, you started out as a secret and allowed yourself to be treated like one for 4 years, you can't expect him to think of treating you any other way. Stop giving your love to others and love yourself first.
2007-02-20 19:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHEATER CHEATER CHEATER! Men need a site like the one you women have. You know the one,where you tell the world he's a scum bag,cheating,lying bas**rd.
2007-02-20 22:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋