why do girls do it?
think its insane
2007-02-20 18:59:16 · 12 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not considering most guys aren't doing it, so what would be the point? Also, there are a lot of people who rush into marriage just to have sex (I have several examples from people I know personally). Rushing into having sex is rarely a bad decision relative to rushing into marriage.
2007-02-20 19:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do think it's stupid to save yourself for marriage. Most of us who have had some experience with more than one sexual relationship know that there's such a thing as sexual compatibility. my last ex was a pretty decent guy, except he wasn't very concerned with my needs in bed. To make matters worse, he was really uptight about it, so we couldn't even talk about it. Thank god I didn't marry him! If I'd waited until marriage to have sex, an issue like that probably would not have become apparent until it was too late.
2007-02-20 19:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Logical? No...
Why do girls do it? I think you already answered that question.. they are insane..
But seriously.. I wouldnt even consider a 'virgin" never have never will (although I have kicked a few of em outta my car and apartment in my younger days) I want someone that knows what the hell they are doing.. i have no time for newbies.. and I'm not in the mood to be a trainer...
To the best of my knowledge.. i've never been with a virgin.. nor do i want to be... they scare the Frack outta me
2007-02-20 19:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
spain,
I don't think logic figures into the equation.
I dunno if you've been around here or there...there ain't that many women who remain chaste 'til they're wed...not anymore.
Some 'save themselves' for religious reasons, some do it becasue they're incredibly shy...and cannot fathom speaking to someone of the opposite sex, much alone letting someone see them without any clothes on.
Is it 'insane' to want to be chaste? I don't think so. To each their own...
2007-02-20 19:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfsburgh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is what they grow up believing and you should respect their descision or you are never going to find a girl that will be there long enough to even get that far.
2007-02-20 19:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Elliegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't want to get AIDS or end up with some psychopath's baby in our oven.
like ciara says "if your looking for the goodies, keep on looking cuz they stay in the jar" until you put a 1 carat ring on my finger and sign the marriage scroll, i ain't doin sh*t with ya. that way if I do and you screw me over, at least i get alimony and i did it the right way under God's law.
2007-02-20 19:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jae Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its very logical. You would also be glad to marry a virgin who has been waiting for the right man ... being you, her husband and knowing its all special for you.
2007-02-20 19:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by sue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's insane! But I also don't think we should think so much and analyze things! I believe in being spontaneous!
2007-02-20 19:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Roubini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do girls save themselves?
well, to prevent from getting pregnant, to prevent from getting STD's, to prevent from regret and guilt, to make that first night with your husband even more special
2007-02-20 19:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by The Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely it makes sense
Nobody wants to marry a whore
2007-02-20 19:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋