My girlfriend was "one of the guys" for 18 years of her 25 year old life. I'm used to her having guys friends, and occassionally talking her exs or guy's she's dated in the past. She says things like "hey baby, I miss you!" and other similiar "pet names" and phrases. I don't care, I trust her and I'm not jealous, but it bothers me that if I was talk to my female friends or an ex and said the same thing, she would flip out and get totally annoyed.
So why is it totally acceptable for her? And how do I approach it? I know if I just come out and say it, she'll get extremely defensive and accuse me of being jealous or insecure. I'm not asking her to stop, I'm asking, why is it wrong if I do it?
2007-02-14
07:21:11
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