so many females in this world is complainig about how they are being hurt by men and boys so i just want to know your response
2007-02-14 07:16:06 · 14 answers · asked by zapprah s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked a buncha guys that once && they all came up with the answer that either they aren't satisfied but they still want their gf, or they do it just because they can. It gives them a thrill to be doing something that they think they can get away with.
2007-02-14 07:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by dazzle713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With men cheating 60% of the time and women 40%, I don't think it's for the reasons people assume (just sex or for the thrills, etc), nor to assume it's just guys.
In fact, I assume that, contrary to social opinion, monogamy isn't normal for all people. Unfortunately, society isn't accomodating to those who want to be both honest and are not naturally monogamous. Open relationships are seriously frowned upon.
Most guys or girls don't cheat to get sex. It happens, but not to most people, IMO. Most fall into a relationship unexpectedly and only have two options they see open to them. Leave the new relationship, which is brutally difficult, or cheat. Society has shown them only those two options.
I am polyamorous. I am very open about my feelings and non-monogamous nature. I always make certain everyone involved is aware and OK before I enter into a relationship (their significant other, if they have one, and my wife). Though sex is a component of these romantic relationships, it's no different than anyone with a girlfriend or wife. They are long term and very loving relationships.
For those who are not monogamous, but not interested in long-term romantic relationships (i.e. sex is the more important aspect) and want to be open and honest with their partner, there is swinging. I"ve never experienced it, so cannot talk about it much.
I've always wondered why people find cheating (breaking the rules) more acceptable than open and honest non-monogamy.
2007-02-14 15:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, as mean as it sounds, I think some women allow it to happen. I say this ONLY to those who knew their man cheated and then forgave him and he did it numerous times after then. If you know your man is a cheat- he is not technically your man. you shouldnt forgive him for cheating.
Then again, a lot of men have been dogged out by women who turned out to be gold diggers, liars, cheaters and thieves themselves. They just dont trust women and when a good one comes along he has no idea how to treat her because of all the bad things that may have happened.
Nowadays people think it is ok to sleep around- there are no consequences. Men think its cool to have notch after notch on their belts and girls cant understand how they got left alone after being messed with by one of those guys. If they would have waited and respected themselves more, they wouldnt have gotten hurt by that player.
Respect is a two way street. Unfortunately some only ride one way....
2007-02-14 15:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes... it goes both ways. It takes two to tango and women are just as bad as men. The only reason you hear women complain about it is because men aren't going to make a fool out of themselves in public by telling the world they were cheated on! Women are a little more self-righteous and think that it only happens to them.
2007-02-14 15:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Snow Plow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys cheat on girls because there ego is to high and they are trying to out do the other guy. Some guys can not commit to girls can and some girls cant commit like a guy can. Its just the way of life.
2007-02-14 15:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by ALICE L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel a lot of it is communication and willingess of the people in question. If I'm not meeting someone's needs then I would like know about it and do something rather than be "surprised" when they walk out the door.
2007-02-14 15:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys don't have a long attention span
meaning they get bored easy
a lot of the time...
they get what they want out of one thing
then move on to the newer things
its not the girls...its the guys getting bored
2007-02-14 15:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jesssss is my name♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys cheat on girls b/c they're selfish, only care about themselves..and think that sex is more important than s/o's feelings..jerks
2007-02-14 15:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by kcgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same reason girls chaet on boys...multiple reasons lack of communication, sometimes they want diffrent things in a relationship...sometimes there is something new like another girl
2007-02-14 15:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ninja T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because boys get tried of the same girl so they go ahead and cheat on the girl
2007-02-14 15:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋