Singles & Dating - 21 January 2007

I used to like this guy...and I'm not really sure what my feelings are for him right now. I was told that he DID like me but hesitated to ask me to formal last month because he was scared that I wouldn't talk. I'm not really sure what to do, my best friend knows the both of us and she says that I should, and his friend says so too. But I don't want to ask him because i'm not sure of my feelings and i'm not sure of his feelings either. I have today to figure this out, because if i'm going to ask him, I have to do it tomorrow. Thanks!

2007-01-21 09:42:14 · 9 answers · asked by Cece 2

I met her a few years ago, planning to get married soon. She is all I've dreamt of and I simply love her to bits. She is older than me by 7 yrs (she's 31). In the beggining I didn't think to much of her past, but asking about it and her not telling me too much made me dig deeper and deeper till I hurt her by doing so. I wanna stop that, thinking of her past mistakes and guys she dated etc. She even changed a lot, she is a pure Christian now, more of a reason 4 me to forget about her past...but I still cannot do that. I prayed about it, I "punished" myself 4 it in ways coz I don't want to hurt her by bringing it up again I think I've tried everything...Any of U guys/gals gone thru this? Will I ever be able to overcome these things or will it haunt me 4 ever? It really drives me to despair sometimes and I just feel like climbing the walls :( Why me?? Why does this happen ? WTF is wrong w/ me ?

2007-01-21 09:42:11 · 16 answers · asked by Ella F 1

A guy asked me to formal but I dont know what to say because I want a date but I dont want to go with him and I dont like saying no to people because it makes me feel bad

2007-01-21 09:41:01 · 6 answers · asked by mackenzie.oliver 1

2007-01-21 09:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 09:40:09 · 4 answers · asked by quez2quan 1

2007-01-21 09:39:22 · 8 answers · asked by itslikerain09 1

Okay.
I need to know why no guy likes me.
i've asked this question before and it's always the same answer, "i'm sure they like you, you just dont know it," well, i go to a private school, everyone knows everybody's business, so i know for sure they dont.
last week, this dork in my class was talking to my and my friend goes, you like her, and he's like you've completely lost your mind.
like i'm that bad to like!
i was so p'od.
i am NOT that ugly.
i am an avg. looking teenager, but i have really small boobs, other than that my body looks athletic, and i dont have a face full of zits either,
my mom, and planty of adults tell me i'm pretty, but even my friends say, "you arent ugly" they never so "you're pretty" it makes me soooo mad.!
what should i do, oh, i'm shy too, but i've been trying to cahnge.

i have big blue eyes,
an athletic body,
full lips,
and dirty blonde(dishwater blonde) hair..
what the heck is wrong!?

2007-01-21 09:37:28 · 23 answers · asked by a 3

How can u tell if a girl wants to be with u or not?

2007-01-21 09:37:20 · 1 answers · asked by chi_wally_wally03 1

Hey everyone.. I am 5'8, and pre pregnancy I was super thin and had the best confidence..My pregnancy caused me to gain 70 lbs when I was 9 months! And now I am still 50 lbs over what i used to weigh.. Now I feel like a fat cow.. I am on a great diet program that I just started on Friday and I am on my way to losing weight.. My boyfriend says Im not fat, just thick.. But what do you guys think? Honest, not mean, opinions. Thanks!
Heres some recent pictures of me
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2007-01-21 09:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Curly Haired Cutie 2

dating

2007-01-21 09:36:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anthony 1

I like this guy that is in my 1st hour class that is about 5 months older then me and yet he is about 5'2 or 3 and im taller...5'4 or 5'5.And he is way skinner then me((im average)) and i guess i flirt w/ him like every day in my 1st hour.My friends told me that I was flirting w/ him before i actually knew I was.So they told me I should go out w/ him.So in my math class he would sit in front of me and would talk 2 me mostly.Now my friend Sydney that sits right next to me, keeps telling me that he is flirting BIG time.But Im not really sure...It was way different last year when I first met him.He would talk 2 me normal...like boring talk.!!!this year....we talked non stop about weird stuff.and stuff i was actually wanting to listen to.He is kinda...KINDA cute.My friends are telling me I should go out w/ him because he and I would make a really cute couple..I just dont see how it would be cute..Now all im asking is here....Should I go out w/ this guy???please help me out here!!!!PLEASE!

2007-01-21 09:35:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't like love. It is gooshy, and unecessary. I hate kids, I don't like doing anything for anyone, and I don't really deserve it. I try to make life hard for myself for reasons I don't know, so I can't love. I don't love my parents, and I have never loved anyone. I am tough, so no girl can get to me. If a girl likes me, too bad. She will never had me. If she did, I would beat her brains out. I don't care when people call me cold. That compliments me. I am a warrior.

2007-01-21 09:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me, my friends and our boyfriends always go out on the weekends, but we always go to the movies or ice skating. Does anybody have good, fun ideas we could go??

P.S. we're all 13 so we can't do anything too serious

2007-01-21 09:34:15 · 23 answers · asked by x0laurrx0 1

2007-01-21 09:34:08 · 26 answers · asked by xlin3ix 1

DONT ACT LIKE U DONT GOSH!

2007-01-21 09:33:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 15 and I used to be a total nerd. Ive changed, but poeple still think of me as a dweeb. how can I show them Ive changed?

2007-01-21 09:33:18 · 4 answers · asked by Food For Thought 3

so lets make a scale:
0 is a soft baby bite all the way to 10 which draws blood

so you could say:

ears 4
neck 2
toes:1

etc.

2007-01-21 09:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by lowroad 1

I am not going to do anything "with" him...and movies are pretty boring and awkward..at least it seems like
there's a lot of snow, we could sled? haha but i did that when i was like a 6th grader with guys..
something interesting and fun
please any suggestions, i've never really had any guys over before

2007-01-21 09:30:54 · 3 answers · asked by kat 3

just got a new bf. hes 14 and im 15. any cool date ideas where we can talk??

2007-01-21 09:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Danceinda7flames 2

2007-01-21 09:28:29 · 10 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2

do you think a couple who began to date there freshmen year of highschool (and are still together a year and a half later, now) can stay together after highschool?

or do you think they would want to explore life and experience new things, no matter how much they love eachother?

2007-01-21 09:28:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

anyones opinions on which one will make a better boyfriend

2007-01-21 09:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by BRIT 1

I have a friend named Justyne and she is totally amazing. She is beautiful and means a lot to me. She is radiant and gorgeous. Her family means everything to her and she is turning 18 next week and I need to get her a present and I have nothing in mind. I had some ideas and whatnot, and since she is my friend and I know her well you think I would know what to get her, but I am just not sure. I really want to impress her. What should I get her?

She is beautiful, family orientated, does well in school, a very innocent person. Very fashionable, seems to get along with everyone, loves music, has a dieing craving for chocolate. Just recently broke up with her boyfriend. So I want to get her something really meaningful. So there's a brief description of her. Please help me.

Thank you.

2007-01-21 09:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

just as i stated all jokes aside what does your girlfriend past lovers say about her???

2007-01-21 09:26:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 09:25:20 · 7 answers · asked by annecsabagh 2

I met an amazing man a few months back and things were perfect between us. We discussed,marriage, kids and going away on holiday together. Then one day he changed when his daughter moved in,he stopped calling,txting and started avoiding me at work. He explained his daughter moved in and i said i would wait,like a fool i did for two months and then i rang and he said he just wanted to be friends and saying how the age gap was a problem,i think his daughter had turned him against me,how can one minute he explain his never dying love for me and the next treat me like i dont exist?the age never bothered him at first. He also turned down a big job opportunity for me,now he treats me like the invisible woman.

p.s i'm over him but i cant understand the big change?

2007-01-21 09:25:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 16 and my boyfriend's 18. Im a virgin. He's had around five sexual partners. We've been togather now nearly for 5months. Im not sure if Im ready to have sex, so I've told him Im not ready and he's not insisting that I should. Would he be feeling impatient?
(Don't bother with writing about no sex before marriage, everyone has different views. And Don't bother writing about contraception, I'm know.)

2007-01-21 09:22:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

tried everything to get out of this, but my friends said "A deals a deal" (i bet that philidelphia would beat the saints in last weeks football game)


How do I not get caught?
If Mrs. Kramer sees me, will she be upset or will she think "no harm no foul"
Any more general advice apprecited. thanks

2007-01-21 09:22:39 · 7 answers · asked by thank you come again 2

What is the ideal weight and size for a woman? Let's say she's 5 ft. 4 in., then what weight and size would you want her to be? 115 pounds and a size 2? Would you like her if she was superskinny, thin, or a bit on the heavy side? How about healthy? And do guys like heavy girls? Just like to know.

2007-01-21 09:21:57 · 17 answers · asked by rainbowgirl07 2

We have been friends for almost 3 years and are very close... I know I have strong feelings for him... I'm just not sure... and I think I want to loose my virginity to him... I'm just not sure if it's right because I don't want to get pregnant or get any diseases, I'm just not sure.... and I don't know if he can wait for me, even tho he says he can... any advice?????

2007-01-21 09:21:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous