I met an amazing man a few months back and things were perfect between us. We discussed,marriage, kids and going away on holiday together. Then one day he changed when his daughter moved in,he stopped calling,txting and started avoiding me at work. He explained his daughter moved in and i said i would wait,like a fool i did for two months and then i rang and he said he just wanted to be friends and saying how the age gap was a problem,i think his daughter had turned him against me,how can one minute he explain his never dying love for me and the next treat me like i dont exist?the age never bothered him at first. He also turned down a big job opportunity for me,now he treats me like the invisible woman.
p.s i'm over him but i cant understand the big change?
2007-01-21 09:25:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes men just change their minds.... very sad but true. its time for you to move on and except his choice. good luck
2007-01-21 10:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by juskilentime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello -
Do not think his daughter could influence him so much. I have a feeling it is his priorities that changed, and sadly, when one person is older it is easier for him/her to treat the other according to his own interests. I suggest you keep on with your life and try not to get bitter, otherwise it may create problems for you at work since people realize and like badmouthing.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-21 09:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by 20082008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with not knowing the age gap it is hard to say. If he is older and all that he could have just seen the fact that he needs to spend more time getting to know his daughter and not be in a realationship right now. it sux but it seems you are over it now so i would just leave it to be .
2007-01-21 09:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen it was about young po pom at the time! think he love's his kid's mother and see oppertunity! Young po pum dont over ride love> Men dont understand love as well as u ladies do! but we got 2 have it! not some 1 in love with us but some 1 we in love with!
and he in love, just not with u. he talked the game she might not b in love with him , but want 2 pull his string's ! and they got pulled and u on the back burner right now , till she decides 2 pull the rug from under his feet! just trying 2 keep it real booboo!
2007-01-21 09:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be going through a rough part of his life right now. give him to time to see the big picture and if doesn't come around...well it is time to move on. best wishes
2007-01-21 09:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has come to realize that he has bigger responsibilities now, like raising his daughter?
2007-01-21 09:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
daughter comes first
2007-01-21 09:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's done is done,and sometimes not knowing the explanation is better then actually knowing
2007-01-21 09:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him
2007-01-21 09:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋