Im 16 and my boyfriend's 18. Im a virgin. He's had around five sexual partners. We've been togather now nearly for 5months. Im not sure if Im ready to have sex, so I've told him Im not ready and he's not insisting that I should. Would he be feeling impatient?
(Don't bother with writing about no sex before marriage, everyone has different views. And Don't bother writing about contraception, I'm know.)
2007-01-21 09:22:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like, you have got yourself a 'keeper' there...
It's lovely, that he has the patience to wait, until you are ready...
He must really Love you...
Lucky you!
Your boyfriend, has a great deal of respect for you...
Don't have sex, until you are ready ; You might decide, that you don't love your boyfriend enough, to give up your virginity and that is why, you shouldn't rush into doing anything, that you might regret.
Good Luck.
2007-01-21 09:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Karennerak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 18 and he's already had FIVE sexual partners! I think that you already know the answer. If you lose your virginity to him you will deeply regret it later. It is a gift that can only be given once and once only. There is also the question of sexually transmitted infections, which are more likely and can be more serious in someone of your age. In answer to your question, a non-virgin would most certainly be more impatient, since the longer you go without sex, usually the less you want it. Be proud of your virginity and wait - you won't regret it!
2007-01-22 21:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think non-virgin as in my experience, virgin guys are still quite dreamy and romantic about sex and once they have sex, they just want to "try" as many women as possible. I have younger brothers who have gone through this, as well as male friends and they all say basically the same thing. Anyway, seems like your guy loves you, but then again, I was with my ex for a year before we had sex. I wish you all the best. x
2007-01-21 10:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's already had sex than yes he will be more more impatient that he isn't having sex. I would stick to guys That are virgins for now, they don't quite know what they are missing yet and less likely to stray if your not ready to give it up..
2007-01-21 09:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think non virgin boys would be more impatient to have sex cos they want to get that exprience and something to boast about. i think your b/f is very happy with you and he respects your not ready for a sexual realtionship it is important to feel comfortable and relaxed when you have sex for the 1st time other you wont enjoy it and it will probably put you of sex
2007-01-21 09:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Non-virgin. My ex-boyfriend would not leave me alone about sex. Every five minutes he'd ask me if I want a **** inside of me. Then I broke up with him. They are so like curious.
Then again, the ones who've had sex know how great it is, and they'll keep looking forward to it.
2007-01-21 09:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he'll wait until you're ready no matter what. He could eventually get impatient, but he seems to respect what you want and if he does, he'll definitely not have a problem with waiting.
2007-01-21 09:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's trying to push you to have sex when you're not ready, he is impatient but he probably cares about you if he is willing to wait for you. Wait until you are ready.
2007-01-21 09:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by banana_splitt00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum men and boys like virgins using fact they like understanding they have been "the 1st". relatively some men (no longer all of them) in basic terms decide for intercourse in a courting and in the event that they are not getting it, they sell off the lady. Or in the event that they become bored with intercourse with one female, they sell off them. Or if the lady won't do what the guy needs, they sell off them.
2016-10-31 22:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nop i think tht guy realli respects u coz he doesnt keep on insistin.. well ya he would be kind of impateint but am sure he understands ur situation.. but i think the virgin boys feel more impatient.. they just wana do it!
2007-01-21 09:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋