Singles & Dating - 17 November 2006

Yes, it's probably a most common question but what can i do?

I'm in love (at least that's what i think i am, like thinking about her everyday and if i see her or speak to her i enjoy every second of it) with this girl.
However, there are a few things/problems:

1. She studies in the same class as me (philosophy/literature).
2. I don't know if she's got a boyfriend at all, which makes it even more difficult to make a move.
3. I'm cowardly in expressing my love for her, or even hinting about it. This is very strong and of course works against me.

So, i'm at a stalemate. I want to do something, but at the same time i don't dare to act as i might ruin the 'neutral' relation with her and have her ignoring me for the rest of life, which is a very heavy sentence (something similair happened to me 5 years ago, might have traumatized me a bit).
So, i realize this sounds hopeless (it is actually), but any advice considering these points would be very much appreciated.

2006-11-17 11:46:05 · 1 answers · asked by Magius Paulus 2

Well their guy that i like and week ago i told him that i liked him, he did not give me an answer, but i asked his friend and he said that he does like me. But scence i have told him ha is always staring at me, always talk to me, and when ever we are in the same room he is always showing off!!!! does he like me

2006-11-17 11:44:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short: im planning on asking this guy out but ive been told that i should flirt a little first. How?

2006-11-17 11:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by MorganR 1

Is it just a feeling or is there more, and what is the difference between lust & love if there is one

2006-11-17 11:43:00 · 12 answers · asked by Kurious Tee 1

How do you feel when guys make this statement?

2006-11-17 11:42:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy.HAHA cmon guys, read on.i read somewhere that you shouldn't date someone without the will to marry them. but he means so much more to me. when i first moved, life was hell. but you know he moved here and we meet in church. we both moved in the same month, and life was hell. and he's the reason why i'm still here, why i can't go back. and i'm the reason why he comes every sunday to the church that is a mile away, when theres a church 10 mintues away from his house. but he doesn't praise God as much as he should.
i thought i was in love with him.
but then i meet this other guy, who is a different race, and totally imperfect. but i love the fact he loves the Lord, and he said he would cook for me when he never cooks for anybody else.

so maybe, i do need to wait. for the right person and just focus on God. but this is driving me crazy. i'm a teen. a hormone driven teen. i can't control my feelings, nor do i want to. i find myself sinning constantly bc even though we are

2006-11-17 11:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was 21 and she was 23, but she said after 2 months she couldn't deal with it anymore, in particular she hated me giving my opinion even tho it may have been right simply because she felt she was older, and that my opinion didnt matter as much because of that....I thought it was a pretty lame excuse to call it quits.

2006-11-17 11:41:25 · 8 answers · asked by hegimony1 1

So here's the deal. I catch her looking at me in class all the time. She gave me her phone number and we talk online/text/phone all the time. We usually meet up after school a couple times a week to study, too. BUT... normally I'd say shes out of my league and she dateing someone else right now. Also, she doesn't hag with me duringschool around our other friends. What's the deal?

2006-11-17 11:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by One_Man_Show 2

2006-11-17 11:40:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

earn the name of players just like guys when they sleep around instead of s*** or w****? If we're not in a relationship how can we earn that name too?

2006-11-17 11:40:19 · 2 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4

I have ask, you, ebay, to unsubsribe me a month ago and you still send me your ****!!!! I do not want to hear from you again or ever see you on my p.c. again... Is this understood? I have asked only 5 times now! I will call my atterney the next time I see you!!!

2006-11-17 11:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Terry P 1

ok here wats going on i have a friend how is cool with every one n huges EVERY girl he sees i on the other hand im not like that i only say waz up to the ppl who im cool with n only talk to a girl if she talks to me can u give me some advise on how i can be more girl friendly (i am not a nerd not a peep i look kinda gangsta i dont have bad looks) girls do i like to talk to me but im kinda shy like when i talk one on one i dont knwo wat to say any advise plz help thanx alot

2006-11-17 11:38:08 · 10 answers · asked by kurdish999 1

Friends ... family ...older siblings ...or even the people (i.e. boyfriend/girlfriend) that the question is about ...

Why ask on here... really ... Is it just attention seeking ..?
or clean harmless fun ..?

2006-11-17 11:38:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well i met this guy and he gave me his phone number, but we didnt really meet he just sort of told me his name and gave me his number. i want to call him but im really shy and i dont no what to say! please help me!

by the way...im only 14 so don't tell me advice you would give to someone older please!

2006-11-17 11:37:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i get a 60 year old money man ta fall in love with me

2006-11-17 11:36:08 · 5 answers · asked by Jeannie T 3

but i love him and i will never do that

2006-11-17 11:35:58 · 23 answers · asked by booky 1

If she was you first in something(ie-kiss,sex,etc) Would you tell her?? If you really liked something about her would you let her know?? If she felt like a burden for wanting to be held in ur arms, would you tell her how you really felt??(if you liked it or not)??

PLEASE ANSWER!!THANX!!!

2006-11-17 11:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by Sakura 1

these two girls Chelsea and Sydney i know like my bf. i've been friends with Chelsea since prek and she's gone out with my bf b4 but now evry1 told me she liked him again after she brok up with him and her other bf. but, a week ago she said,Are u mad at me? and i said, "yeah u like my bf that's what every1 told me" but she was like, "no i don't".But she flirts with him all the time. Then there's Sydney. She's always really nice to me but always flirts with my bf who she also broke up with. One day chelsea and sydney even both told each other they wished that they wish they nevr broke up with my bf. But Sydney one day before my bday party said that my bf wasn't goin to kiss me but her instead! and she said that he would brake up with me but he didn't want to hurt my feelings. But evry1 talked 2 him and he had no idea what she was talkin about and he said he would nevr brake up with me and she denied evrything she said!!!! what should i dp about these lying backstabing b!tch3s!!!

2006-11-17 11:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by cada-dia 3

For me it was finding out that I really love the life that I'm living...

2006-11-17 11:33:08 · 25 answers · asked by "Chanel-o" 3

Some background

About 10 days ago, a girl that I liked admitted that she liked me. We had been friends before that and had started hanging out almost everyday a few days before. We're not exactly boyfriend and girlfriend, though that is definitely where we were headed.

Well, I wasn't myself Wednesday. I came over her house, some of her friends came over too. For whatever reason, I didn't talk much and was pretty much just "there".

Now, despite all the fun we've had, it seems her opinion of me has changed. She acts a little different around me now.

We talked about this yesterday. She is disappointed that the relationship is going too slow, and that I am too shy to make the first move. That is how i've been, though I want to change.

She is an outgoing person and I tend to be shy. I know that this relationship can work though as we definitely have chemistry and both still like each other.

Can anyone give me some help on speeding up the relationship and helping me, well, make a move?

2006-11-17 11:31:42 · 4 answers · asked by Shy Guy 2

2006-11-17 11:31:40 · 14 answers · asked by JOLIE69 2

I have been dating this girl for over a month, we are really attracted to each other and she wants to be more physical, but every time I go over to her place (I spend hours), her roomates always are walking by her open door and she never closes it so we can have privacy. I have kissed her with the door open, but was careful because it was kind of weird with her roomates walking by.Should I just close the door myself? Are these mixed signals?

2006-11-17 11:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by Bucky for Prez 1

Well today i had no school and i went to spend it with my boyfriend to his house..everyhitng was going great..but in the last moment i was looking for some change to take the bus i found pictures of his ex girl...when he came to the room he told me that it wasnt what ui was thinking , he told me that he dont care about her and that he havent seen her like in 2 years, But why he still got those pictures? i been with my boyfriend for 7 month already and i dont know what to do!! what should i think??? =[

2006-11-17 11:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by meee 1

will their b hope if they both love each other and the only thing that
is keeping them away is this so and so morther

2006-11-17 11:29:40 · 9 answers · asked by Tsitsi M 1

2006-11-17 11:28:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

FOR GUYS ONLY!!!!! what must girls be like in order to attract your attention?

2006-11-17 11:28:19 · 8 answers · asked by Kari 3

2006-11-17 11:27:08 · 14 answers · asked by Leeya R 2

2006-11-17 11:26:41 · 1 answers · asked by Leeya R 2

especially if u like him...lol cuz i want to show him I care but it'd be fine if he doesn't answser...actually that's better because I'd rather leave a message..lol. but we're friends... and I think we're getting clser so yeah.. should I? because I really want to :)

2006-11-17 11:26:00 · 19 answers · asked by ooh 2

2006-11-17 11:25:53 · 4 answers · asked by Leeya R 2