in order to attract my attention?
smart, kind and open.
in order to keep it?
smart, kind, willing to share, caring, loving.
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but that's probably not what you're asking. you're probably asking what physical characteristics do I find most attractive?
-- well, I can't answer that. I don't look to the face, to the boobs, to the butt. there's much more to people than what you can see from the outside, and it really is what's inside that counts. even if you're superficial, and only want sex. still all that matters is what's inside. litterally.
of course, I meant that metaphorically. I'm not a superficial bastard.
at any rate,
you probably want to know what I seek in a relationship?
a companion, somebody to care for, somebody to care about me
a friend, someone to talk to, someone to listen to, someone to share with
a love, somebody, to hold, to hug, to kiss, and to be held, hugged, and kissed by.
a confidant, someone to share my hopes, my dreams and my fears with, and somebody who will share theirs with me.
an equal, somebody to share with. to give and recieve equally, to ask to go, and who will ask to stop. somebody who will tell me when I'm screwing up, and somebody I can do the same for.
in other words, somebody to have, to hold, to love, to give to, to share with and to care for. and somebody who will do the same for me.
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but I cannot give a list of physical characteristics which I find attractive. that's not who I am.
and yes some people just want sex. but I want more than that.
so yes, I'll appreciate your physical characterists, and no, I'm not blind, but I can see beauty in any face, and that's what counts. I love people for who they are. not for who they might be; not for what they may do, but for what do do. I love people for their humanity, their strengths and their faults. and yes. I love the faults too, for they give something to share, something to work with. they make it so that we can live and love, and not always have to be perfect. I know I'm not. why should anybody else have to be?
2006-11-17 11:30:48
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answered by The greatest and the best. 5
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Sadly high school is just a bunch of superficial kids. I say work on making yourself happy and when you get to college there will be lot's of good guys coming after you. I have always liked girls that are different. I could never stand preppy trendy cheer leaders, or popular girls. I had a very hard time in high school because people thought I was a nerd. But after, I got so much attention I didn't know what happened. So don't rush things and don't give up. People that act popular will never care about you. Don't give in to scummy guys, but look more toward the cute somewhat nerdy guys that smile at you but are too shy to talk to you. They will work harder to make you happy.
2016-05-21 23:50:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Just dress in some sexy clothe,s And show A little cleavage and if you have got a cute face . That,s about it take,s to get a man,s attention,but it,s what,s inside you and your personality that keep,s our attention.
2006-11-17 11:44:59
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answered by ? 5
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They look for underwear that magically removes itself.
2006-11-17 11:30:10
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answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7
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they want a girl that's smart, nice ***, nice chest, nice curves,nice face, nice, athletic
that would be a perfect girl
2006-11-17 11:33:45
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answered by rusty s 2
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they like butt , and they like how u look like , and most of all, they like u if they look at u up and down ,. so let that happen to u
2006-11-17 11:40:03
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answered by Anonymous
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be sweet, caring and NON nagging... and u be fine
2006-11-17 11:31:32
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answered by James A 2
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good sense of humour does it for me......
2006-11-17 11:36:29
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answered by Hidden 3
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