Some background
About 10 days ago, a girl that I liked admitted that she liked me. We had been friends before that and had started hanging out almost everyday a few days before. We're not exactly boyfriend and girlfriend, though that is definitely where we were headed.
Well, I wasn't myself Wednesday. I came over her house, some of her friends came over too. For whatever reason, I didn't talk much and was pretty much just "there".
Now, despite all the fun we've had, it seems her opinion of me has changed. She acts a little different around me now.
We talked about this yesterday. She is disappointed that the relationship is going too slow, and that I am too shy to make the first move. That is how i've been, though I want to change.
She is an outgoing person and I tend to be shy. I know that this relationship can work though as we definitely have chemistry and both still like each other.
Can anyone give me some help on speeding up the relationship and helping me, well, make a move?
2006-11-17 11:31:42 · 4 answers · asked by Shy Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude! Ask her out. Take her out on a real date. Romance her. That's the next step. Take each step. Not too slow, not too fast. But be deliberate.
2006-11-17 13:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go camping, just you and her. That way, there will be nothing to distract you from her...you will be forced to talk and get to know each other. Plus, sleeping in the tent together might "speed things up" if thats what she is looking for.
2006-11-17 11:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TENSED UP. Relax, loosen up, take deep breathes n most importantly you have to feel COMFORTABLE with whom you're talking to....things will definately fall in place.
2006-11-17 11:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, it has to be done naturally, rushing it will be awkward so just do what u feel is right.
2006-11-17 11:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋