Singles & Dating - 2 October 2006

Ok well i was dating this guy for a year and a half and he was the best boyfriend i ever had. i have a one year old girl and he met me a little after she was born. he taught her to call him dad and that's what she calls him and she loves him. well we always had an issue with him and other girls. after we were talking for a while he told me he had cheated on me on my birthday, but he says that he did it because he didnt really like me at first. well there were other incidents after that and he always came up with an excuse and i belived him because all i wanted was for us to be together and he said he loved me and we talked about marriage and kids. well we broke up a week ago and we promised we wouldnt be with anyone elst. were graduated this year and i'm in college.i just found out that he's been dating a junior for two weeks meaning he's cheated and kissed me after he has kissed her. i am so hurt and he told me she's special. i've done everything for him. and i dont know what to do.

2006-10-02 07:39:35 · 12 answers · asked by Paris R 2

I plan on asking a girl to a formal dance, but another guy might ask her as well. Looking for an over the top way to ask her so she can't say no.

2006-10-02 07:39:29 · 3 answers · asked by Aaron C 1

I am 33 year old guy, and comming out of a long term relationship. I haven't been on the dating scene in years. What does a woman look for in a guy today? Advice on clothing, cologne, and places to go, places to eat would be appreciated. My date is tonight and I want it to go off without a hitch! Thank you

2006-10-02 07:38:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 6Ft 2 with blue eyes and light brown hair. Would any concider going on a date with me.
barney.barnard@yahoo.co.uk

2006-10-02 07:38:21 · 6 answers · asked by Barney B 3

2006-10-02 07:36:15 · 12 answers · asked by philanthropic 1

2006-10-02 07:35:28 · 10 answers · asked by Thomas A 1

Me and my girlfriend were talking today, and we've been going out about a year. We're 18. It came up that she had run away when she was younger, and I sypathetically said 'oh, that must have been bad, where did you go (as in where)?". She said, 'How dare you ask me that question?", I said "What, it was just a casual question?", she then replied "It's hardly a casual question", then she just stormed off without saying anything"

What do I do? I feel like I should apologise, but ideally just want to leave it, but won't that make things worse, as I don't really feel what I should be sorry for. Should I just apologise, or just leave it a couple of days and see if she calls me (she should eventually), what should I say?

2006-10-02 07:35:21 · 18 answers · asked by g s 1

I have a friend who I have been talking with and he is having a really hard time getting over a situation with his ex, as well as he has some anger towards his best friend. Long story, but I assure you that the two are interrelated.

I have been talking with him to help him, but he can't seem to get past the anger. He normally is pointing the anger towards himself and blaming himself for things they did... when I point out that they DID the things, and it's not his fault.. at least not in the way he is blaming himself.. then he gets uncontrollably angry and has some very not nice thoughts.

This person is very dear to me, and I would like to help him. He has been in a bad place and he doesn't have a lot of people he can trust, so I don't feel comfortable with just walking away... sooo... what can I do?

Any ideas on things I can say to him to help him take his thoughts in a different direction and to help him move on & find new people and experiences that will make him happy?

2006-10-02 07:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by Willalee 5

My bf have only known each other a month dating we saw each other around school before that and are already talking about family . I am 18 and he is 22 and my parents dont like him because of his age so we are sneaking around but i really feel like i love him but i have only had sex with one person and it was after a year of dating maybe 4 times and 3 two weeks ago well after a few drinks my bf and i kind of lost control and had sex and well it was hard to keep our hands off each other before it feels a lot harder now.It feels like a drug i want to be with him all the time. And since then we have forgotten a condom or any other form of protection twice in the moment. How do i get back in control again? My period was suppose to have come last week on monday?should i tell him whats going on?

2006-10-02 07:34:28 · 24 answers · asked by Melanie o 1

in the uk...u all seem a bit like geezer birds to me xxx

2006-10-02 07:34:25 · 22 answers · asked by charley7515 2

2006-10-02 07:34:09 · 5 answers · asked by okus66real 1

I need to find out if this is the only relationship and I don't have too many sources too.

2006-10-02 07:33:39 · 10 answers · asked by Incredible Hulk 1

I caught her choking the chicken the other day and last month she was spanking the monkey. Im at my wits end!!

2006-10-02 07:33:11 · 37 answers · asked by ? 2

i liked this boy but now i have a crush. he asked me out but i like another guy and like this boy is well. i am just scared people might say ugh! she is going out with him.
note:please dont say follow your heart. If you like him say yes.

2006-10-02 07:33:05 · 1 answers · asked by baby faced satan woman 3

i liked this boy but now i have a crush. he asked me out but i like another guy and like this boy is well. i am just scared people might say ugh! she is going out with him.
note:please dont say follow your heart. If you like him say yes.

2006-10-02 07:32:42 · 10 answers · asked by baby faced satan woman 3

we've been dating for 2weeks now ,but he has been giving me the cold shoulder lately. It's proubly because I went to homecoming with my best friend friend jesse. I really love him and we been through alot together.He's been kicked out of school for three days now and I'm very scared. I've tried calling him ,but he hasn't answered. I need help bad!

2006-10-02 07:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by daisy10326 1

I need to break it off...what do you think? (This is a relationship of 2 years)

2006-10-02 07:30:03 · 10 answers · asked by :-) 2

there's this girl i like yh and i think she lyks me 2 but im not sure. anyway im not afraid 2 ask her out it's just that .... i dont really know what 2 say. and the reason its girls only is because i no all dese idiot guys hu tell u stupid ways on how 2 ask a girl out and they obviously dont lyk being asked out dat way so i woz wundrin how girls prefer 2 b asked out. and i no every girl's different i just want a few opinions plz. thnx in advance 4 da help!!!!

2006-10-02 07:29:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-02 07:28:41 · 3 answers · asked by philanthropic 1

I have a boyfriend of 6 months that I only see once a week. About a month ago I noticed that he would say he's going out with the guys and I'd hear from him the next day. No goodnight, no checking to see if I'm alright. I started getting suspicious and I started calling when he said he's out. His cell would be off. This has happened like 5 times. I asked him if I was seeing him enough and if I wasn't then I'd understand if he wanted to see someone else. He went on and on about how he's a one woman guy and he doesn't like to be questioned because he's not a cheater. When he'd be missing until the next day his excuses started with he fell asleep, then his cell is acting up and now (this happened last week) its he fell asleep again. It's obvious that he's hiding something but he swears that he's not. I asked him why are the times when you're out with friends, the exact times that your phone is acting up? Could he be telling the truuth and it all be a coincidence?

2006-10-02 07:28:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

you see there is this boy i fencied in year seven know i m in year 8 he told me he likes me and asked me out and i do have a little crush but what if every body finds out wat am i going to do then. And i do like this other boy its just that when every body finds out i dont want them to think ugh!!! she is going out with him
note: please dont say follow your heart and if you like him say yes.

2006-10-02 07:27:21 · 13 answers · asked by baby faced satan woman 3

I'm tired of all the English does any speak Arikaans.

2006-10-02 07:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by Barney B 3

2006-10-02 07:26:48 · 7 answers · asked by Kiana A 2

me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 7 months now and we both want to have sex and we r both vrigins but he dont think that im being all the way open with him yet so he wnats to wait until im more open with him but how long should u be with someone before u think about having sex with them

2006-10-02 07:26:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who initiated? You or Her? And if you have to ask what it means, just move along...

2006-10-02 07:26:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the scenario: I told a guy that I liked him and he turned around and told someone that it doesn't matter whether he likes me or not, I'm too young. We're 3 years apart in age.

2006-10-02 07:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by dragon_fan1 1

This girl and i began talking a few weeks ago, then without reason just stopped talking. The last time we spoke was about a week ago. I havent called because she hasnt called. Today im gonna be on her campus to see an anthro presentation. Her dorm is nearby, should i stop by to say hello or what? HELP!

2006-10-02 07:24:28 · 7 answers · asked by Legionnaire 1

have u ever been on one? im not going on one but am just curious... thanks ppl! what do u all think / are ur experiences?

2006-10-02 07:24:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i promised my boyfriend id stay over 2nite but i have runny poos, the thing is they are so noisy and smelly and wake the whole house up.do u think i should go out 2 the backyard and go there so i can blame the dog??

2006-10-02 07:24:04 · 11 answers · asked by carol c 1

How does a girl go from being a "homegirl" to being a "girlfriend"?

2006-10-02 07:24:01 · 5 answers · asked by Ree 1