me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 7 months now and we both want to have sex and we r both vrigins but he dont think that im being all the way open with him yet so he wnats to wait until im more open with him but how long should u be with someone before u think about having sex with them
2006-10-02 07:26:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh lawd, thats way to long. How in the world did you you hold out that long? JUST DO IT already.
2006-10-02 07:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are serious about him and feel that this is someone that you want to experience that with then by all means. If you are want to save it for the right person and marriage then wait...
Is he worthy of having the only thing that you posses and can all your own.
It seems like he may not be the one that is ready to make that next step. And if he isnt that is ok. You both will know when the time is right
2006-10-02 14:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by tisha_rivera 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe that this is a matter of how you feel.Assuming you are 18,or older.You,and he should really sit down and talk about it openly.As this is a very special gift you can only give once(your virginity)in your entire life.Make sure you really feel he is worthy of taking your virginity.Keep in mind that you Personally should feel comfortable with the situation as it is a gift from GOD to give the most precious gift of all.I was given,and gave the gift to my first girlfriend,and now have regretted it for 20 years.
2006-10-02 14:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety.. first of all you need to go to the following links and read them.. they talk a lot about what you are thinking of doing:
http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/
http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/firsttime.html
http://www.avert.org/sfeel2.htm
http://www.sexdictionary.info/firsttime.html
http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/contraception/contraception.html
http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/birthcontrol/
http://parentingteens.about.com/cs/teenssex/l/blbcmyth.htm
I know its a lot.. but you REALLY need to know about what you are getting into.
So before you and your bf decide to do it... please.. please.. please... read the above information!!! it can help protect you from getting into trouble (babies, STDs, etc).
As an FYI... most women decide if they are going to sleep with someone within the first 5 minutes of first meeting them. Most guys between the ages of 16 - 27 who are 'dating' (ie not in a comitted relationship and not looking for one) will date a girl 3 times and if there hasn't been some form of sexual contact within those 3 dates they will drop the girl and move on.
2006-10-02 14:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are. If you're over 18 and you both want to then do so, just use protection. If you are under 18, wait till you are 18.
2006-10-02 14:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If HE is 16 and under, then wait, take your time. If HE is 18 or over... he has no problem waiting for you because he's getting from some other girl. He's a virgin... yeah, and I'm Santa Claus.
2006-10-02 14:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your ready for responsibility then go for it.......be sure that youre over 18......so you can do it!!......
suggestion.......if your ready and sure about each other that the two of you will be together for the rest of your life....sex is good if no protection specially when its the first time...if you're SURE if not and still over 18 and willing to do it.....condom is a must!!
2006-10-02 14:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by geez 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Assuming you are over 18, go for it. Under, then wait until you are 18.
2006-10-02 14:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thinking and doing it are two different things... I think he is doing the right thing ... You can think of sex all of the time. But remember you want your first time to be with some one special... good luck and God bless... EFIL
2006-10-02 14:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 mabey 3 minutes.
2006-10-02 14:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by jokedrugs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋