Singles & Dating - 19 August 2006

My girlfriend and I dated for a year and recently broke up because I'm leaving for school in 5 months. It was like we had an expiry date, so we both decided to end it. We do care about each other very much, but becoming committed again won't happen since I'm leaving soon and moving from Canada to Australia and I understand that she doesn’t want to date exclusively if it’s not going to lead anywhere. Things have always been really good between us, so we are trying to have an open relationship and work out some ground rules. The 2 main issues however are emotional and sexual. Emotional since I don’t want to cause her pain by being with her, but not completely. And sexual because if either of us is seeing others we need to use condoms and they ruin otherwise amazing sex for both of us. She is currently dating casually and I had plans of doing the same. I really think we are both mature enough to make this work on some level and we both agreed that this is better then nothing.

2006-08-19 06:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by slashdrummer 1

Is it because you don't know me? We will get to know each other. Is it because we may not have anything in common? We may have everything in common? You don't find me attractive? I don't find you attractive. You've never met me? I've never met you.

We have so much in common. I feel like I've known you all my life.

2006-08-19 06:11:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 06:10:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have heard hundres of times that money isn't the most important thing in a potential mate although I do think it is somewhat important. If I want a man who makes a good living, I am considered a gold digger where as I get rejected by men who won't even give me a chance or answer my personals ad even if I email them first because I don't have a college education. Why do people tell me I am thinking to much of a man's earning power when it seems the guys do the same thing. The main reason they want a woman with a college education is because they want her to have a career and be making good money. I don't think that I am stupid just because I didn't go to college, hey not all of us had that opportunity. I probably work harder than those people because I have to do some physical work and don't get to sit on my butt all day in an office. Why don't guys stop being gold diggers? Isn't it a woman's personality and how she treats you that matters??

2006-08-19 06:09:52 · 11 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

2006-08-19 06:06:46 · 26 answers · asked by dudes222 1

2006-08-19 06:05:57 · 5 answers · asked by shaggy420315 1

2006-08-19 06:05:06 · 9 answers · asked by RENE H 5

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2006-08-19 06:04:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is the typical age gap question. but I ask it for opinion purposes only. generally most people will say sex but the girl however is a virgin and he said he loved her first.

2006-08-19 06:01:54 · 54 answers · asked by ShySweetNSassy 3

I have good reason to believe my apartment is being watched, and/ or there is some kind of hidden electronic camera or device. I have heard it is very easy to get all kinds of spy/ voyeuristic equipment and planting it almost anywhere. I need to know where I should look for this in my apartment. Also, how do I tell by taking the phone apart if something is there that shouldn't be?

2006-08-19 05:59:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 05:59:36 · 25 answers · asked by rosetta f 1

We've seem to have long eye contacts during breaks while we are in group. Does that indicate something? I do like the her.

2006-08-19 05:58:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a very sexy s.l.u.t girl,that type who dresses less, be with someone in a nightclub, is there any chance to have her that night? is it possible to make that girl join u the rest of the night? and have sexual fun together?
so...How and what should i do to do that?

2006-08-19 05:54:25 · 6 answers · asked by toby_m 1

2006-08-19 05:54:21 · 17 answers · asked by VI H 1

and how much time you spend for sex play with your partner before actual sex generally

2006-08-19 05:53:25 · 4 answers · asked by sanjay 3

I like this girl and she knows I like her. I want to tell her somthing that will change how she thinks about me I dont know what thought. Ive liked her since 4th grade and Im going into 7th now. I would do anything for her. Any ideas on how to change how she looks at me?

2006-08-19 05:51:33 · 5 answers · asked by ♣♣Brick♠♠ 2

and if so do you follow there record on the questions they answer

2006-08-19 05:50:05 · 11 answers · asked by ssshoebox67 3

2006-08-19 05:50:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 05:47:07 · 19 answers · asked by catsup.joe21 1

How can you tell if a guy likes you or what do you do around a girl to show that you like her with out telling her that you do?

2006-08-19 05:46:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 05:45:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had an ongoing relationship with this guy for over a year now, more of just a "casual sex" relationship, but we have feelings or each other. (read my other posts) We've always kinda given each other mixed signals but he's opened up to me ALOT since I first met him. He's sorta the silent romantic type whereas he'll show he cares through his actions. Well now I know why he didn't want to get too serious with someone too soon, so he wouldn't get hurt and someone else (me) wouldn't get hurt...

He's from a different state and was transferred here because of a job. He's mentioned awhile back that he was thinking about going back home to be with friends and family. Well just lastnight, he mentioned it again, and just then I remembered that his lease is up by the end of this month! When he told me, it got silent, I didn't say anything, just pretty much said, yah. I couldn't help but tear up a lil bit, but he didn't see me, and I didn't want to start being a drama queen. He could just tell that I got quiet, so he was trying to laugh with me, which made me laugh, so I started to forget about it. It was still in the back of my head, but I didn't bring it up again. I wanted to show him that I was strong. As we were talking he asked again where I got my rings, (he asked before not too long ago). Which I thought was odd because he doesn't usually ask questions like that. So I'm not sure where he was going with that...could that be some sorta hint? I was kinda in shock the whole time so I wasn't really talking much, but I had so much on my mind, and I wish I would've told him how I felt, but I thought he already knew...since about 6 months ago I wanted to be more with him, and he said he wasn't ready..well now I understand why.
I've always known that it's hard for him to show emotions because he has this protective shield around him, which I've learned came from a troubled childhood. Even lastnight when we were watching a movie, I was sitting on the couch, although I was taking up alot of room, (he was sitting in a chair) and I asked him if he wanted to lay down..he said no I'm alright. So I was like hmm..then 5 minutes later he came and sat next to me. I wanted to cuddle with him SO bad, but I was just happy he was sitting next to me. So it's always seemed like to me that I have to make the first move in order for him to open up..
Anyways, I don't know what he thought of me not spilling my emotions lastnight, but like I said I didn't want to appear "needy", I wanted to show him that I had a good head on my shoulders. BUT I kinda regret not opening up to him...but at that point I was kinda scared of how he would react, and I was filled with mixed emotions too, so I wanted everything to come out right. I'll probably see him again IF he decides to move, but how should I approach things? What should I tell him? Since he feels more comfortable with me making the first moves, what should I do? I want him to know that I really care and love him, what's the best approach? I think time is running out, hopefully he doesn't move, but what if he does..I'll really miss him.

2006-08-19 05:44:49 · 14 answers · asked by feisty 2

I live in Karach, Pakistan at the moment

2006-08-19 05:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got a job and there's a guy that caught my interest. how can i make him interested in me? we only say 'hi' to each other and sometimes he askes me "how are you?" but i don't give him elaborate answers so the talk fades out. and when he enters in my office he doesn't look at me as far as i observed...

2006-08-19 05:40:37 · 15 answers · asked by jayjay 1

"All I can say is that my life is pretty plain
I like watchin the puddles gather rain
And all I can do is just pour some tea for two
And speak my point of view but itts not sane, its not sane

I just want someone to say to me
I'll always be there when you wake
Ya know I'd like to keep my cheeks dry today
So stay with me and I'll have it made

And I don't understand why I sleep all day
And I start to complain that theres no rain
And all I can do is read a book to stay awake
It rips my life away but its a great escape...escape...escape

All I can say is that my life is pretty plain
You don't like my point of view
Ya think that I'm insane
Its not sane... its not sane

I just want someone to say to me
I'll always be there when you wake
Ya know I'd like to keep my cheeks dry today
So stay with me and I'll have it made"

And then break into, "I knew I loved you before I met you"?

2006-08-19 05:39:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-19 05:39:21 · 6 answers · asked by bhushan m 1

I have dated and pluged more then a normal mans share of women. It seem the worse you treat them the more they want you. I get many of them in bed with lies about being rich. They see a dollor sign and their legs open wide like a automatic door at a mall. Come on in and let me bag you and when I am done I will toss your but to the curb like the trash you are.

2006-08-19 05:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by dwh320 2

what and how is the best way to find a slutty girl for a one night fun,I dont mean for s-e-x,I mean fun and s-e-x may come after that.
how to find a slut? in nightclubs? or somewhere else?
any hints for that?

2006-08-19 05:30:14 · 6 answers · asked by toby_m 1

A girl I was having sex with for years decided to come off the pill without telling me and had a child. when the paternity test came back positive i decided to see the child. However i feel nothing for it's mother. We' ve now discovered the child is very ill and will need a lot of medical care. I am seperated and have a grown up family. I will continue to see the child but i don't want to play "happy families" with it's mother. how can i get her to understand and accept this.Please...... sincere answers only.

2006-08-19 05:30:10 · 20 answers · asked by justinoc1 1

This guy that I've known for about 6 months. He's flirted before then started acting really nice but just in a friendly way. Started making more eye contact then before. But about a month ago he came over to give me work. This is how I know him. He gave it to me and just stood there with his arms over my cubicle. So I tried making personal conversation with him. He acted really shy and nervous and acted as if he didn't want to. But when he left he smiled at me and really looked into my eyes. But as I was leaving the building he saw me and again smiled big and looked at my lips I felt like. But then looked down the whole way out wouldn't look at me. The next day when I past him he looked at me hesitanly but then an hour later was tring to get my attention by sneaking up on me. Then looked at me with a big smile and just kept looking at me. But then he went back to no eye contact at all. But then a week went by and I bumped into him in the hall and I had to hand him somethi

2006-08-19 05:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous