I am 26 and my girlfriend is 18. We have been together for 3 months now. I really like her a lot and she says she loves me. She show it sometimes. But there are times she doesn't. I prefer to spend and time I have free with her. Which isn't that much. Her working late evening and I working days. When we first started talking we waited a while to have sex. I wanted to and she agreed but found it had to find true. I'm 26 I more out of a relationship than that, and wanted to prove that. Well when ever the sex talks came up she would boast about how she wants it everyday and blah blah. So I was like wow. Well a little longer went by and we finally did it. Lets just say I am a big guy or she is a small girl. It hurt her a little. Well I have been there before and after a while the girl gets use to it and it starts to feel good. Well it did and then she thought she was pregnant. She really wants a child and so do I, But I don't want to move that fast. She was on BC and quite taking it for a week. Well we found out she wasn't. About after this she started to not show much heart, and sex drive went down. She still complains about it hurting and always says she tired. so I talked to her telling her it bothers me. I explained that its not that we don't have sex, Its that you don't want to. She doesn't like to kiss me or mess around nothing. She comes back with shes tired, not in the mood, and for the kicker That's all I want and it makes her feel like that's all I want, But she knows I don't. Well after hearting that I was speechless. I have done a lot for this girl to prove that I want to be with her for who she is. I think she know s that, and she tells me know know it. One night she told me that I should ask my friend Jessica about why she doesn't want to sometimes. So I did, I guess they talked about it. She told me it was because it hurts her. Now when I brought this up with my GF she told me it was not that. That she just didn't want to.
Well I am just confused. The last couple of times I know it was just to give me some. We have had intercourse Three times since the of July and it was like a week before that.
2006-07-27
08:35:51
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