Im completly and totally in love with my boyfriend...i see myself spending my entire life with him...he is my everything...but lately at work, this guy comes in almost everyday, he works next door and comes in to cool off... i think he is very attractive...and i feel very guilty for talking to him everyday, and thinking he looks good, am i over thinking it? or am i really wrong by thinking this about him?
2006-07-27 08:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats fine, and completely normal, as long as you dont go and ask him out or something. thinking certain people are attractive is normal. you should probably avoid flirting w/ him though. that can only lead to trouble. dont worry about it if you're just talking w/ him; you're over thinking it.
2006-07-27 08:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by krush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is healthy, Lex. You're just looking at the menu, and he's probably doing the same. Your love for your bf will not be harmed unless you take the "cooling off" guy further than fantasy. So don't feel guilty, just enjoy the conversations.
2006-07-27 15:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be friendly as long as your not flirting or sending the wrong messages. You may be crossing the line that's why your feeling guilty. It's perfectly ok to be attracted to someone else other than your partner but it becomes wrong when you act on those feelings.
2006-07-27 15:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to feel an attraction to someone other then your significant other. But it's what you do with that attaction that defines your relationship with your partner.
Do you flirt with this other guy when you talk to him every day? If so, you need to question your *true* feelings for your boyfriend.
Look but don't touch ;-)
2006-07-27 15:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by dyno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every woman needs to feel attractive does'nt mean ur going to b unfaithful. . . just dont let it pass the point of conversation, harmless flirting never hurted any one. . . just be honest with urself and search to c if ur boyfriend is the 1 or maybe there just may be someone else out there for u. . .
2006-07-27 15:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by ladilea2169 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever herd of you can look but don't touch. don't feel bad he probably looks to and if talking to someone was cheating than this world would have no such thing as a relationship's so your doing good don't let it bother you
2006-07-27 15:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a girlfrend, and i talked to her telling her that even tho i think other girls r still hot, that doesnt mean i would date them or anything like that. she understands, and she said that as long as i dont like flirt or send any wrong messages to them, then shes fine.
2006-07-27 15:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by nathaniel_ward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, talk, but don't touch. i think it's normal to be attracted to attractive people.
2006-07-27 15:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not bad to think someone is attractive even though you love someone else. just don't think anything else about him......lol
2006-07-27 15:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by momo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends with the guy thats all nothing more nothing less
2006-07-27 15:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by Tyler M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋