My boyfriend (that I'm in love with & vice versa) are I fighting a lot, but we both want to stop. How can we do this?
2006-07-27 08:20:46 · 21 answers · asked by Curious&can'twait 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in relationship some times u have to stop first and finish that off even if ur partner wants still to nag ...and some times he has to stop ....like some times i find my bf is damn wrong and he wants to say am right i never tell him no ur wrong i don't say any thing or i tell him ok ok ur right enough.... coz when u start yellin he starts yellin , n non ov u would find out what is the fight all about
2006-07-27 08:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What about? Do you fight about stupid stuff like what to watch on tv? You might be fighting about topics, because you're too chicken to confront the real issues behind them.
Do you two fight-fight, or argue? By fight-fighting, I mean character-assassination and insults, or mean-spirited things to hurt feelings? Do you argue your point of view, and it just happens to differ from his? Does one of you always have to be right? Do you walk away feeling bad about yourself or him?
www.drphil.com has some info on fighting, and fighting fair. All couples will have differences, but you can either fight or argue. There are some cool message boards there to talk with others in similar situations...
Take care!
2006-07-27 15:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well First figure out why are you two are fighting, and put the issues in perspective. Then you would weigh are they even serious enough to be fighting....You have to be the bigger person.
Remember: A soft answer turns away wrath but grievous words stir up anger.-proverbs 15:1 (your communication can extinguish anger of escalte it).
2006-07-27 15:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by lthudson14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the arguments are probably about little things. when couples argue about petty things there's usually a huge underlying problem or issue than one does not want to bring up. both of you have to be open and honest and figure out what that underlying issue is then resolve that and go on from there
2006-07-27 15:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and talk with each other about everything that you fight about all the time. If talking only leads to more fighting its not worth being together.
2006-07-27 15:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at what your actually fighting about... and it's very possible your not as "in Love" as you think you are. Good Luck!
2006-07-27 15:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by xxx SiT On My North Pole xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love each other why are you fighting at all ?
try talking it out....and if it gets heated to the point of fighting walk away and clam down (both of you)
2006-07-27 15:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ðêù§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try having a open honest conversation with him. don't spend to much time around each other either you both need personal space. also prayers can also work for anything
2006-07-27 15:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by debbie_gibbs2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out, look past your own view, get a feeling for how the other feels and then meet in the middle some where on whatever it is you are arguing about.
2006-07-27 15:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every time you are going to say something that will start a fight --- instead put his co## in you mouth.
every time he is about to say something that will cause a fight put his co## in you mouth
then you will fight less
and your boyfriend better vote me as best answer
2006-07-27 15:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by iznit d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋