Singles & Dating - 26 July 2006

Lately I've been reading a lot of questions and answers that have been disturbing me. I am a successful black man in my late twenties. My fiance is a successful WHITE woman with a powerful company.
Let me assure you of something, I am not with her because she's "easy" nor am I with her because "she let's me have her way with her." I'm with her because I love her and respect her.
Her friends (both white and black) have zero problem with our engagement, infact my family is really happy about it. But as soon as I take her out to a bar where there are black women, she gets eyed up and down so much you'd think she was naked.
How come her white male friends have no problem with us, but my black female friends do? Mami, it's time to get over YOURSELF. I'm not with her because some big bad black lady sent me running, believe me, if I don't behave, I don't get no loving. It's as simple as that.
What's WITH this stereotype? I don't love her cause she's WHITE, I love her because she's HER.

2006-07-26 06:55:44 · 37 answers · asked by Cody A 1

I've been seeing a girl for a few weeks now and I can't tell what she wants from all her clues. She's very indepedant and we only see each other a few times a week, but when we do we will hold each other for hours on end. we havn't had sex, she says "i just don't give it up for anybody" but then she tells me " i can't believe i'm so attached to you after only 3 weeks" We're both 30 and shouldn't we move a little faster than this? I mean come on we're not spring chickens anymore.

2006-07-26 06:55:23 · 9 answers · asked by Globe199 1

my boyfriend told me he needs a huge favor from me. im assuming he needs money, if this is the case how do i make sure im not getting used? should i let him borrow money? i do make alot more money then him but still i dont know why he would ask me for money. is it wrong for a man to ask a women for money?

2006-07-26 06:54:37 · 3 answers · asked by questiontime 1

im talking in life...in a relationship...whateva....what makes men happy?

2006-07-26 06:53:52 · 29 answers · asked by MsNic 4

I know the proper time period to wait is "until you and your significant other/bf/gf are ready", but I was wondering how many dates, on average, you have been on before you've had sex with your partner?

Thanks so much for your help with this-

2006-07-26 06:52:18 · 12 answers · asked by Sean/Guy Wiley 4

Ok my b/f ex-g/f showed me text messages they sent back and fourth together and i asked him about it. Well he said he didn't do it and anyone could have put that on her phone. But the thing is I seen his number and the times and dates. So is this true could she have put it in her phone?

2006-07-26 06:51:54 · 21 answers · asked by love_me_not1982 2

my boyfriend is in college and i still have 2 yrs in high school but he graduated high school early and moved an hour and a half away from me to go to a college, and he has 2 girl roomates. he complains that he has a house, but the 2 roomates have rules and he cant come visit me for a day due to how much gas is. I see him every 3-4 weeks, but we have gone out for over a year and love eachother quite a lot, what should i do, and is he cheating on me?

2006-07-26 06:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by ++Laura++ 2

YOU FOUND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT!!! (Like that episode of The Cosby Show, back in the days). What the hell would you do????? lol

2006-07-26 06:51:08 · 5 answers · asked by High? 6

2006-07-26 06:50:21 · 22 answers · asked by Phoenix 3

Ive been in and off with him for 7 years. hes 25. with no job, no car, and lives at home with his mom. I love him to death, and wish things could be better. But he is the way he is. There is nothing i can do about it. I dont see him that often either..we talk everyday, but anyways. Last year..I slept with one of his friends for about 5 months. And my boyfrind dosnt know about it. he has his suspisions, but i keep denying it. Tonight My boyfriend and the guy i slept with are hanging out for the first time since everything happend. And they are both going to be drinking. I dont want the guy i slept with too tellmy boyfrend anything. What do you think i should do?? Show up at there house where they are going to be?? Or call the guy i slept with too tell him not too say anything. Or is that too sketchy, help me here..

2006-07-26 06:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am talking to a guy in another country bc he is in the army, he is coming back in mid-august... we have been talking about 2 months and i met him in may so we know each other but like i said he had to leave for the army. there is a age difference of 6 years. i really like him and i am not sure if he likes me back. how do i tell?

2006-07-26 06:48:43 · 17 answers · asked by whatup 1

do you like for him to look in to your eyes and keep looking like its a staring contest or what do you want him to do

2006-07-26 06:47:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

if guys alwayz say that personality is better than looks, then y do all of the ok girls w/ great personalitys never get bfs but the hot girls do??

2006-07-26 06:42:31 · 16 answers · asked by redhead 2

i have this guy friend and we are really close, but we are at the point where we dont know what to do we really like each other and we want to date but we are afraid that it will ruin our friendship, we have been best friends for 3 years and we r both 18. it is just a hard to make that choice because my luck if we endup have'n sex then my bigest dream will become a nightmare!! PLEASE SARE YOUR ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-26 06:41:00 · 5 answers · asked by kool-i 2

2006-07-26 06:40:42 · 21 answers · asked by Pooh Bear 1

I went to bring my girlfriend of one year flowers and when I came up to her parking lot I seen a guy get out of her car. I went to the door and he answered. He said she was in the shower and she would be out in a minute. He said he was just a friend and he was not having sex with her. He said come back in ten minutes and we will talk about it. I came back and they did not answer. This was at about 11:30 pm. She called me back all pissed off wanting to know why I was at her house. So I told her and then she wanted to break up with me. I love her so much, I have given her a ring and on many occasions we have talked about marriage. What the hell am I suppose to do?

2006-07-26 06:40:26 · 25 answers · asked by jared g 1

shaft.. Spoke to his mom and told her flat out I WILLNOT DO THIS FOR MUCH LONGER SPEAK WITH HIM AND GET HIM TO UNDERSTAND CUZ I AM GOING BLUE IN THE FACE TRYING AT 3 MONTHS JUST LIKE A JOB IF NOTHING IMPROVES DO i QUIT OR FIRE HIM???

2006-07-26 06:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by jazzmine2003 1

2006-07-26 06:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 06:35:47 · 36 answers · asked by Katharyn B 1

2006-07-26 06:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by lakeofthelongsun 1

2006-07-26 06:35:07 · 8 answers · asked by stuart j 1

I read that several times a week at nighttime Chuck Norris has a truck pull up to his house full of ORPHANS! He teaches them lessons about life at his home. Chuck Norris then proceeds to turn up his system and BLASTS "It's a Hard Knock Life" while repeatedly Roundhouse Kicking them in the face for a half an hour straight. Then in unison they all say, "Thank you Mr. Norris!" and board the truck and then leave.

Is this true or you think Walker is actually that nice to help these children with their behavior?

2006-07-26 06:32:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy who studies at the same college that i go to,
last time as we dated for the first time, he kissed me and wanted to have sex (said to me you have to be comfortable with it , since you have fun, that is ok, ) i am not religious person at all,
how long would you wait till you have first time sex with a guy you dated? is 6 months very long time, would 2 months be ok? what is normal?

2006-07-26 06:32:06 · 10 answers · asked by franky c 2

What do men prefer? A curvy bottom, or a small little ***? What do you find that they like best? Is there any logic to any of this?

2006-07-26 06:31:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 06:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and i have done more then one thing to lose his trust and everytime i did something i promised him i wouldnt do any thing else to lose his trust but then i did...now i just want his trust back can someone help me?

2006-07-26 06:30:59 · 47 answers · asked by brittany_glid1890 2

last nyte was the worst nyte of my lyfe and it had to do with this
so i just want alittle insyte from other people

2006-07-26 06:30:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 06:30:41 · 30 answers · asked by crazytodd11 1

I hav a bf since 2 yrs.From 3-18th june i joind a salsa class n askd him also 2 join but he avoided sayin tht he has gym at tht time. A very sweet guy offered me 2 b my partner in dance class n i caled up my bf n told him. he sounded quite cool but next day i startd gettin' my bf's rude,taunting n abusive mesgs sayin tht i love tht guy n should hav sex with him,remove my clothes in dance class etc. i sent so many mesgs to my bf n told him tht i don lov my partner etc but in vain. he told me tht he will get investigation done n if somthing wrong he finds out, he will not reply or contact me. Same thing hapned n its been 45 days v havnt talked. he doesnt reply my mesgs n doesnt even look at me. i kept mesgin til 10july n gav last mesg tht after this mesg ill start 4geting u but he didnt reply.On 21july i saw him on road n ignored n i got his mesg"when i see u, my blood boils n i feel like throwing stone at ur car n wana slap ".DOES IT MEAN HE LOVES ME?HOW LONG HE MIGHT TAKE TO CONTACT ME

2006-07-26 06:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

On the 27th, I'll be 21. My fiance recently dumped me to pursue his dream of becoming a hermit(really) and my friends thoughtfully gave me a "pet" 19 year old boy for my birthday. He's very very very attractive, and mellow, and has a very high pain tolerance and seems quite open to the idea of being my pet, which makes me very happy. But I have just one question, like so many other ppl on their birthday sometimes have to ask, "What do I do with it?" I have no idea what to do with him, besides when my friends try to tickle me I tell him to sic them. I use him as a headrest, and makes him get me beers and light my cigarettes. But what else can I do? Slightly shy and not very dominant me needs to know! lol

2006-07-26 06:27:01 · 1 answers · asked by thebobguything 1