there is this guy who studies at the same college that i go to,
last time as we dated for the first time, he kissed me and wanted to have sex (said to me you have to be comfortable with it , since you have fun, that is ok, ) i am not religious person at all,
how long would you wait till you have first time sex with a guy you dated? is 6 months very long time, would 2 months be ok? what is normal?
2006-07-26 06:32:06 · 10 answers · asked by franky c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would realy like to know how long did you wait till you had sex with a guy
2006-07-26 06:37:58 · update #1
Since your old enough and know how to practice safe sex I would say if your ready then go for it.
2006-07-26 06:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months for 1st time for me...but it all depends on the relationship and how you feel about sex...do you feel it should be between two people in love only or OK just for fun...I personally won't sleep with someone unless I think they are the one.. 2nd guy...2 months...married him so there isn't a 3rd yet... now divorcing
their right if he pressures you and doesn't respect you for wanting to wait then ALL he is after is sex....if thats what you want then anytime is right but otherwise don't... my first bf tried to get me to after a month but I didn't think he was sincere so I didn't then he broke up with me...we kept getting back together(stupid me) but never trusted him enough to have sex.
I don't think there is a normal it's what ever is right for you.
2006-07-27 22:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is whatever you feel comfortable with. If you want to wait 6 months ok. 2 months fine. These are your limits you are talking about. If he likes you, he will respect those limits and not try to pressure you. If he pressures you, all he wants from you is sex and you should drop him. Remember, make that step only when you ready.
2006-07-26 13:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused at how that is worded...but here it goes.
I think that's a big step, even if you aren't religious. He shouldn't rush you into that. I don't think there's a time frame for what's the best time, but I definitely don't think 2 months is a good time. At all.
Just wait and get to know him better.
2006-07-26 13:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait till you no its right. Because you will no those rockets go off and you will light up like the 4th of July. So theres no time limit
2006-07-26 13:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by shootmeballs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you really like him then why let him think that your easy. Just make him wait if he really likes you then he will wait. If you want a one night stand go for it. but you know he will talk about you to his friends if you do. So if that's the kind of rep you want then go right on ahead. I say make him wait.
2006-07-26 13:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by val 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait and get to know him, he may look good outside but you dont know what is going inside, just for a little taste is not worth wasting you whole life
2006-07-26 13:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by pooh_lrh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is always normal with mutual consent
time period - pl do what you want to do
do you wait when you are hungry?
2006-07-26 13:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by sunnila16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as long as you are comfortable, just let your instincts lead you..
2006-07-26 13:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by positive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shitting
2006-07-26 13:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋