my boyfriend told me he needs a huge favor from me. im assuming he needs money, if this is the case how do i make sure im not getting used? should i let him borrow money? i do make alot more money then him but still i dont know why he would ask me for money. is it wrong for a man to ask a women for money?
2006-07-26 06:54:37 · 3 answers · asked by questiontime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he doesnt have any money then he is probably using you. i was in a relationship for a month where i s realized he was using me for money he would ask me out to dinner then we would get there and eat then he would be like dang i dont have enough money can you get this one. after the 3rd time of doing this i realized what i was doing... i made more money than him and he knew it and was just using me i got out of it as soon as possible.
2006-07-26 06:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by whatup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how early on in the relationship it is, how much money he makes and how much you make. If you´ve only just started going out and he´s already asking you for money, that´s a bad sign. If it´s a small amount you can live without, I would say lend it to him and if he doesn´t pay it back never let him borrow money again and tell him why. If it´s a large amount you should sign an agreement where he states that he will promise to pay you back. If he has a good job don´t worry too much about it, but if he has a crappy job or is unemployed, don´t trust him and don´t lend him the money.
2006-07-26 07:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Double 709 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is very hard to answer. But a real guys don't really asked women for money. It should be their responsibility to give women money. But if he asked you for money to take cared of an important thing give him it since he don't make enough money. furthermore you should monitor the amount of you give to him as regarding it as a loan.
2006-07-26 07:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by problemsolver86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋