Singles & Dating - 24 July 2006

My ex, we were together for nearly a year, has been proposed to 3 times by ex girlfriends.
He said the reason he turned them all down was because he never loved anyone enogh to want to marry them.
He's 31, still goes clubbing every weekend!
He says he never ever wants to get married, not that l wanted to marry him, but he's 31 and dumped me by txt after a year together, l could understand that from a 19 year old, but not a 31 year old.
He meet another girl when he was out clubbing!
Shes 22, l was 19.

2006-07-24 01:28:13 · 9 answers · asked by London girl 3

A few of us went for some cocktails after work and she asked me something I didn't know how to answer. She said if the opportunity came to me, would I have sex with her? My jaw dropped and she added that she knows I check her out daily. She said she even caught me looking down her shirt which was what she wanted me to do. This gal has a nice set on her so she told me not to answer right away, but tell her by today. I am married (but not always happy and satisfied) so this is hard for me to turn down and also hard to decline. Help!

2006-07-24 01:27:45 · 6 answers · asked by Master Kenobi 4

My boyf is leaving for 6 months. Been together 15months?? What should i do?? Wait or not??

2006-07-24 01:27:21 · 12 answers · asked by toots 3

initially,v vere best friends n sudenly i felt dat i vas in luv vid him. n he also realisd dat i m in luv vid him.so vidout any hesitation i proposd him.n there vas no response frm his side. n even i never askd anythng abt dis n he always usd 2 tease me regardng dis bt then also i luvd him n finaly on 18th july he proposd me. i thought he iskidding bt no. i vas wrong.he was serious abt me.bt then also i m not able 2 accept the truth dat he luvs me cos previously he never blievd in luv.so,i need ur help.what shud i do now? shud i trust him?

2006-07-24 01:24:50 · 10 answers · asked by candy 1

ok look at this from my point of view, girls think with their HEARTS and Heads when going into a relationship so would u take her back if she cheated and then came back asking for ur forgiveness and saying she was foolish and all that crap

2006-07-24 01:23:44 · 33 answers · asked by chaopred 3

im a boy 19 and strait. i kinda had an anti social faze where i dident go to school and had no freinds when i was like 14 to about 18. i used to be scared by girls and couldent talk to them but since ive started socialising again i find it hard to be freinds and talk to guys, like i enjoy girls company much better than other dudes, i seem to get along with girls alot better, their very easy to talk to, i just feel like i have nothing in common with dudes. all my freinds are girls, i know a few guys but i wouldent really call them freinds is there somthing wrong with me??

2006-07-24 01:18:38 · 12 answers · asked by bill 2

2006-07-24 01:18:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 01:18:19 · 9 answers · asked by Queenbee 1

2006-07-24 01:16:02 · 7 answers · asked by 383864 2

2006-07-24 01:15:54 · 13 answers · asked by Akel 1

i've been dating this guy for more than a month.he is unemployed.and have a financial problems.so i help him.but sometimes i would feel like he is using me.but he is a nice guy.he just don't have a job.should i leave him?im confuse.i think i love him but.

2006-07-24 01:15:45 · 23 answers · asked by alia_ 2

2006-07-24 01:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by man d 1

they say i have to be mature and responsible

2006-07-24 01:13:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 01:08:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLZ HELP ME.
How could i be irresistable for him SO that he always want me? and chase me?!

2006-07-24 01:06:29 · 8 answers · asked by yashar 2

My boyfriend said that he likes to watch porn, or look at it. It hurts to think that my boyfriend is masterbating to another girl. It makes me feel ugly and usless like I don't do the job right. Does anyone else feel like this? What should I do to end my jealousy. I know guys are going to look at other females. I just want to end my feelings of hurt.

2006-07-24 01:05:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-07-24 01:01:05 · 15 answers · asked by Lady_Lavinia 3

He's really into pericings and Tatooes and works in a parlour, He is the first person to really make me feel special and says he wants to make me his work of art, My parents are so against anything like that but I feel If I do this for him he will know I really love him, I thinks its a lot easier to get removed now and If I use makeup on it no one will notice when I dont want them to.

2006-07-24 01:00:00 · 48 answers · asked by monica x 2

What r all the expectations from your boy-friend while Dating...?

2006-07-24 00:59:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anand 1

i have a long distant relationship and i love my girl more than everything,am faithfull and loyal to her but i am afraid she don't trust me.What can i do?

2006-07-24 00:54:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was inspired to write this after reading about another person who’s 39 and never had a girlfriend. So here’s my situation; I’m a white male on the verge of my 39th birthday, and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I can assume that the problem is with me, there are several factors that may account for being of the psychological make up for this dilemma:

1. I grew up with a physically abusive father and a some what less physically abusive, but also psychologically and verbally abusive mother.

2.I had two older brothers, both of whom never wanted to spend any time with me, and three older sisters. My oldest sister had a nasty bitter divorce and stayed with my parents along with me and my 3rd oldest sister, my oldest was very angry and verbally abusive toward me. My second oldest sister was much like my two older brothers, not wishing to spend any time with me. My third oldest sister was much like myself, shy, introverted.

3.Growing up wasn’t easy. I grew up overweight (still am to this day), shy, nervous. I had worked for my parents from the time I was 11 and was not permitted to do much else beyond that and school; thing like camping or vacations and family outings were alien concepts to me . My oldest sister kept moving in and out of the house well into my twenties, developing drug problems along the way, and having several unpleasant episodes in my family‘s house that way. My 3rd oldest sister never bloomed, became grossly overweight and developed several illnesses including paranoid schizophrenia ; she eventually died from a rare circulatory illness at the age of 33.

4. I managed to start making friends after high school, even managed to find creative pursuits, but being so inexperienced in dealing with people I found myself bungling friendships with people, expecting to much from them or behaving inappropriately. In my immediate circle, I found my self to be the runt of the pack.

5. I was able to get myself to go to college, but I always felt like I was beyond my station or social class to do so. I currently have two low paying jobs that barely pay my bills while I pursue a modestly, quasi passable career in the arts. I’ve been in and out of therapy, had several nervous breakdowns, and have been on anti depressants.

I wonder how these thing factor into why I have never had a girlfriend. I’m pretty sure I’m not gay. I have had sex (rarely, and mostly paid for. I’ve asked women out (though rarely), and I’ve also been careful not to go into the maudlin details of my home life growing up. I fear it will never happen for me, that somehow, I’m too damaged to ever be able to have a relationship with a woman. Where should I start in going about fixing myself? This problem with women has become monumental for me. I fear I’m on the verge of another breakdown, and would like to know if there is a way to get myself straightened out.

2006-07-24 00:53:37 · 17 answers · asked by CDB88 1

what do you look for in a guy? does he have to be hott to?

2006-07-24 00:51:33 · 7 answers · asked by fletch 2

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2006-07-24 00:47:29 · 2 answers · asked by bill 2

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2006-07-24 00:46:58 · 26 answers · asked by louise 1

Well i duuno but i find my drawers or my socks wld invariably hve a hole in it after som use, does everyone face the same or its perticular to me and few others...? Does the gals also face similar problems....?

2006-07-24 00:39:20 · 12 answers · asked by Jay 2

2006-07-24 00:38:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 19 my gf 17, she wont let me put my hand down her pants(lolhaha) should i be worried??? is she hiding somthing???? lol

2006-07-24 00:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by bill 2

my husband is a soilder overseas and when he gets back sex is usually boring and i really want to spice it up he wants me us to act out like role play and im no good at things like that cause im really shy and he wants me write hima very erotic letter so please could someone draft one out u would really be saving my relationship please!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-24 00:37:30 · 9 answers · asked by chic_who_take_noshit 3