they say i have to be mature and responsible
2006-07-24 01:13:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to let your parents see that your old enough to handle the responsibility of dating,and if your under the age of 16,then your not ready you just think you are cause somebody you know is doing it.Live your life,not through the eyes of someone else.
2006-07-24 01:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most normal way would be to show how you are able to be responsible and mature if this means explaining how you plan to use protection or if all else fails plan to raise a child and be a great dad then its the way to go.
or you can do the ground breaker and sneek a date or two in let them find out and learn that you were resonsible and that they can trust you and so after you have been grounded for a bit they will then make conessions and eventualy you will be dateing with the help of thier own money.
Cheers
Michael H Flack
2006-07-24 01:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by flackstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you need to make sure your parents know that you can make responsible decision's. and also r u at the age were dating is OK (15-16). there are alot of things that go on out there that you young kids don't think about i am sure that your parents want the best for you. it may seem like they are being hard on you now and that they are trying to ruin your fun but trust me when you get older you will be happy that they did. and don't try to rush things. let things "go with the flow" you have to show your parents that they can trust you and make sure they know that no mater what you would call them if you needed them.ask then for there outlook on things. ask them to give you "situation's" and then tell them how you would handle it.. i would be more than happy to give you more advice if only i knew more about your situation's. you can email me at hot_n_sexy_cowgirl@yahoo.com if you would like i am a mother of 2 great kids and know what its like from your side and theres.. have a great day..
2006-07-24 01:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by hot_n_sexy_cowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, not knowing how old your are (early teens, or slightly older?!?!)
but, THAT MATURITY THING gets used by parents... ALL THE TIME... RESPONSIBILITY TOO!!!
try getting a few fast friends, and work on GETTING TO KNOW, WHO YOU ARE, AND HOW YOU WANNA SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE; ONCE YOU GET OLDER!!!
i know, THE WORLD'S A VERY SCARY PLACE RIGHT NOW, AND "you don't wanna die" without having "tasted some of the good life" EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY!!!
girls, GROW UP FAST; that is to say, THEIR BODIES MATURE, before; THEY'RE EMOTINALLY MATURE!!!
it's that HORMONAL THING!!!
don't worry... the WORLD WON'T END, before YOU GET YOUR FIRST SEXUAL ENCOUNTER UNTER YOUR BELT... PROMISE!!!
e-mail me back, with some more information; such as your race, your age, and your parents religous background... then, i'll be better able to help you more...
good luck, and DON'T RUSH INTO ANYTHING!!! YOU'VE GOT ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD!!!
zed
2006-07-24 01:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Zed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show them that you are responsible, do things around the house without being asked. take on a babysitting job. do really good in school (learn how to spell convince). visit your gramma or grampa. little by little they will see that you are maturing and are more responsible.
2006-07-24 01:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by vebyllucs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must respect the feelings of you dear parents , yes , they can't force you to do right thing , but they can atleast guide you for your own better future , parents are the only soul on this earth who really love their own blood , no one else can have or can generate the same affection , pl do listen to them .
2006-07-24 01:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they don't trust you because you're a bad speller?
Seriously, if you want to impress them, do every chore imaginable in the house. If they can't trust you after that, you have a problem.
2006-07-24 01:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by vichussmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have done something that made them think that you cannot be trusted. Gain back their trust and confidance in you and you will be alright. Remember trust is the key.
2006-07-24 01:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well show them you are mature and responsible, and prove to them you can handle dating
2006-07-24 01:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you'd never convince me.
For one reason... you're not old enough or smart or enough to spell "convince"... how are you ever going to have the skills to date!
Listen to your parents... they are way smarter then you! (but then.. most everyone is.)
2006-07-24 01:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋