ok look at this from my point of view, girls think with their HEARTS and Heads when going into a relationship so would u take her back if she cheated and then came back asking for ur forgiveness and saying she was foolish and all that crap
2006-07-24 01:23:44 · 33 answers · asked by chaopred 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
. . . never mind her Heart if she cheated on you - you've got to ask yourself is she any good at giving Head . . .
2006-07-24 02:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Astra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from my point of view she would only be there 4 the good times an run from the bad cause that happened to my husband his ex was a real HOE only looking for man with money an car an he took her back an just used him some more an completely devastated him an broke his heart leave her an find some one better once a cheater always a cheater
2006-07-24 01:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by vicsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on ur certain situation, was a one night stand or a long term thing? how long have u been with this girl and so u love her? everybody is capable of cheating. in my opinion just coz u cheat does not mean u dont love someone, we all make mistakes. and we all deserve 2nd chances, but if u were to take back someone who cheated on u could u forgive them? could u ever trust them again? its all ifs and buts and it depends on the type of person u are and the type of person she is.
2006-07-24 01:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Caroline N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all make mistakes babe. Im a girl and im totally thinking with my head here! If you think the relationship is worth salvaging then yes give her another try on YOUR terms. If she agrees to this then Id give it a try, but if you have even the smallest incling shes messing around walk away.
I think you do want to stay with her as you're on here asking advice. Im sure you were hurt when she cheated, but maybe it was a genuine mistake - give her the benefit of the doubt as she sounds genuinely sorry.
2006-07-24 01:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that people make mistakes...it is human nature. However you need to be cautious here as perhaps she will hurt you again. My advice is to take things REALLY slowly. Explain to her that she really hurt you and you are unsure how you feel about her anymore as your trust for her has gone. That way if she is serious about you she will do everything in her power to gain your trust again. Sometimes things are better the second time around- sometimes you need to lose what you've got to realise how great you had it. All the best...
2006-07-24 01:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. My motto is once a cheater always a cheater. Cheaters always seem to figure out after they've slept with someone else that they have made a mistake. I want to know why they don't realize that before they allow somebody else to touch them. I bet you're a nice guy too. Don't let this ruin who you are. She just wasn't the girl for you.
Good luck!!
2006-07-24 01:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once the trust between two people is broken, it is very rarely re-established. I would consider if she is worth the time and patience required to rebuild an honest relationship, especially since she has wronged you once already. If I were you, I would consider it a life's lesson and leave her behind. She's not worth it.
2006-07-24 01:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Disgruntled Biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters (no matter what, men or women) only learn if when they cheat they are rejected. If they are continously forgiven there will be another cheat approaching in the future.
2006-07-24 01:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. there was some reason she cheated you and this problem will always be there. You will always wonder what she is upto when your not with her and this will just make things worse in the long run.
2006-07-24 06:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by anastacia beaverhausen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! once a cheater always a cheater!! She should've thought about that before she did it!!! Forgive her for your own sake and let it go...but don't take her back!!! Good luck!! PS: You deserve someone who would never do that to you!!
2006-07-24 01:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we mite all like 2 think wed say no in this situation but if u love her giv her another chance if she messes it up then let her go n she obviously wasent the 1 4 u good luck
2006-07-24 02:05:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋