my husband is a soilder overseas and when he gets back sex is usually boring and i really want to spice it up he wants me us to act out like role play and im no good at things like that cause im really shy and he wants me write hima very erotic letter so please could someone draft one out u would really be saving my relationship please!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-24 00:37:30 · 9 answers · asked by chic_who_take_noshit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie, what do you have to be shy about? he is your husband. He married you for a reason. He obviously thinks you are attractive. come out of your shell! try something new for yourself, it will make you less shy. Besides if you pretend to be someone else you are not being your shy self right!? good luck!
Blessed Be.
2006-07-24 00:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having someone else write something erotic for you, just isn't right for your relationship. I could write you one ...but...is he going to think you've been holding back on what YOU want in the bedroom? Is it going to put different ideas in his head about things he'd like to do with you, that would in fact make you feel totally uncomfortable. Writing things like that is so easy. You see it in your head and explain it, that's all there is to it. I don't understand why you'd be shy with your husband, but if you are and want a role to play. Pick something that would involve someone who is shy...If it's something like that, you won't have to role-play much, you'll both enjoy it. I believe that with sex, you just have to let go. Try anything once see if you like it. If you do, great! if you don't ,at least you can say, I've tried it!.
2006-07-24 08:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You write a mail everyday, if you know the address you post a card once in a while just to show how much you miss and how much u love.
http://en.thinkexist.com/quotes/with/keyword/miss/
http://1001loveletters.terra.com.br/lista_cartas.asp?navegacao=1&categoria=3
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2006-07-24 07:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sarath M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i m getting your problem.yaar dont mind but most of this problem is with soldiers.i think you should go for another guy in his absence so you can also live your life when he is not getting you then what you need? we can talk on this if you want give urs no or mail at nishant
_chandna@yahoo.com
2006-07-24 07:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by nishant_chandna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think thats right he should be glad to just come home and see you but no he wants you to do all this crazy sex stuff? I would be mad
2006-07-24 07:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by moodymouse54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up as a sexy librarian, with the thick glasses and all. That would be hot.
2006-07-24 07:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iof that is what you want i am happy to help contact me & i will be willing to write one for you
2006-07-24 08:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will show you how i need email address
2006-07-24 09:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by beenwiredon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what your comfortable with...he,ll have to deal with it!!!or move on!!
2006-07-24 07:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋