was only being nice and sociable to someone in high school because I am not a mean person like that to not let somebody talk to me. It was only temporary because I thought that I wouldn't have to deal with that person after I left high school (and trust me, they annoyed me constantly in high school! Never gave me a space to breathe and kept coming up to me and annoying me when I was with my friends. One of my friends actually ended up not coming to a class ever again because it was that annoying and bad.. and my other friend ended up skipping classes because it was that bad as well) However, this person tends to see me a lot now with me going to college, and I don't mean to sound nasty or that, but it's kind of the same thing. I don't want anything to do with this person, I have tried giving them hints that I dont want to talk to them by maybe listening to music loud, or ignoring them in the corridors and that whenever they say hi, and it makes me look nasty - which I don't like because I am a kind person. They still didn't get the hint after this so I told them over MSN to leave me alone, and they still won't get the hint. Even though I said to be left alone in block capitals they still continue to come up to me, interupt me when I am with some of my friends and that, and basically attention-seek and never leave me alone. How can I tell this person straight to leave me alone without being mean? I have a firm feeling I will end up hurting their feelings, and I don't want to do that - but I have warned them that's what's going to happen if they do not leave me alone because I will take action. It's going to make me feel twice as bad and guilty for telling them out straight, but you have to be mean to be kind really, and because I am such a nice person I will have difficulty doing this. Can someone give me some advice here?
2007-10-07
07:49:00
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