i HATE my mom?

Question

i hate her so much sometimes.....we have had problmes for years..she started to hit/punch/sctract and kick me evertime things get hard or even if i do something very little she wenyt crazy...she lies to me and tels me one thing but hten never does it and says she never said it..she cry to her freinds to make it seem like i am the bad one making her sad when in reality she makes me cry and makes me be sad...she just yesterday screamed at me and hit me for yelling at her dog...her dog started licking me and everybody knows i hate dogs so i scremaed at it and said go awayyy and she looked at me then hit me and screamed "NEVER TALK TO MY DOG again" then she wants to get the animals blessed today when i told her i wanted to go to the mall she said yes but she now is saying theres no time because she needs to pick my brother up and get the animasl blessed....so basiklly theres no time for me....i cant stand her anymore...

people say im "rebelling" now and everyboyd is gettign mad at ME for doing the bad thigns i am doing but has anyboyd ever thought that i might be acting this way because of how im treated and how my "oh so great MOM" is raising me?

i need advice and help...how can i deal with her untill im 18...((when im 18 im moving out asap))))

im 14 and im a freshmann

i went to therapy and she went to therapy then we both went to therapy togethor and nothing ever changed or got better...i have reactive attachment dosorder to and also adhd and i used to hav seroiuse depression but im now off of the medication for depression..they want to put me back on it....=( i dont know

i cant live with my dad because my mom has FULL costody over me and my brother...my dad was druggy and alcoholic and he was "lost" somewhere in florida for a year...and he has a new wife who i dont think i would like living with

Answer 1

Well, there has to be much more going on in your hosehols than just this paragraph. SInce that information is not available, my suggestion would be to get good grades in school, get into a good college, try and get as many scholraships as you can to insure that cost will not be an issue, and get out of that house. Learn to be independent and make your own life.

Answer 2

I am so sorry...that is just terrible. I have been there and done that as a child and as a wife of a abuser as well. I have three grown children and when they were still little I divorced their dad because I saw what the abuse was doing to them. Now as adults they all are doing well but still have emotional scars from childhood.I tend to blame myself with all the emotional baggage that come with it but my dear you must tell someone who will listen to you, believe you and help you if possible. Could you get emancipated? Possibly if you can prove in a court that you are able to take care of yourself by getting a job as well as a place to live.If not then look into checking to see if a relative would be willing to help with a place to stay for awhile.I hope this helps a little...you are a wonderful young lady.

Answer 3

if you're telling the truth... well, i really cant imagine what kind of mom you have..... but on a contrary, maybe she needs to talk to a psychiatrist. Do you have aunties or uncles or grandma (especially your mom's mom.), why dont you ask some help from them, and i think there's a reason why yor mom acting that way, coz as far as im concerned every mom loves their children, they dont want their children hurting and be hurt. If she does it once or twice ( the yelling, the slapping) it's normal.. but with the kicking? it's really a big thing... ask some help from your relatives... you should tell them about your mom so you can do or make some actions or remedy before your mom get worst. YOUR MOM NEEDS HELP...

Answer 4

i have almost the same problem stay in ur room dont talk to her if she hits you 4 not speaking 2 her and it gets brutal get to the police and tell u were being abused and that she will lie about anything she has done, or better yet find the child abuse people cause they will definintly belive u more than ur mom cause theyve delt w/ insane parents b4, and dont be scared no matter what she says cause once your in safe hands she cant touch u

Answer 5

Please, go to your counselor at school and tell her you need to talk to a professional. Your mother's behavior, if this is true, is criminal. She needs serious counseling and parenting classes and you need professinal help.

Please get some help from a neutral person as soon as possible. Do you have a family member you can go to?

My mother mistreated me very badly after my father died, and fortunately my grandparents took me into their home and I lived there until I was almost out of high school when my Gran died. Then I had to stay with the woman calling herself my mother until i graduated high. then i left home.

please get help; talk to someone; my heart is aching for you right now and i am going to remember you in my prayers every day. god bless you.

Answer 6

let's see sweetie i have been in a situation like this with my mom and my 2 sisters. first off our moms love each and everyone of us. if there is at least 1 thing it has to be love. i can't believe your mom just hits you it seems like for everything? why? do you have a dad to turn too? is he still alive? if so talk to him maybe he can guide you if not take it from me ask your grandma on your mom's side. if she is alive talk to your grandma one on one she knows your mom better than anyonelse. she will be able to help you and hopefully talk to your mother. if this doesn't work get d.c.f.s. involved maybe your mom needs a little jail time.

Answer 7

Go straight to your guidance counselor when you get to school and tell him/her EVERYTHING. You need help and so does she. What she is doing is in no way your fault. There is absolutely NO EXCUSE for a parent to abuse their child, and that is exactly what she is doing. You are a child. She is supposed to be the one to protect you, comfort you and take care of you. She is the adult in the situation and she is faced with adult issues. But, she needs to deal with them and NOT take them out on you. She is supposed to be your safe spot and make you feel loved.

Please get help AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

Answer 8

i used to have problems with my mum as well.
it seemed as though she never had the time for me and all i had was her.
it felt like i grew up alone for most of my years cos she was never really around.

my little suggestions.

- stay out of her way. you know what angers her, and as much as you wanna piss her off, its probably not a good idea.

- you can try the "counseling approach" but that never worked for me either. nonetheless, i guess its part of the list of suggestions.

she is your mother and she will always be. but realize one day you will grow up and be above all this. meanwhile, learn to be independent. like someone said, study, get good grades, and one day you'll be out of there.

lastly, faith.
keep it with you. even if the faith isn't in your mom. faith in yourself that you'll be alright

Answer 9

Sounds like she has some psychatric issues, or maybe even drug/alcohol abuse. If it's mental, it might be genetically linked, so my suggestion is that you get some help for yourself NOW. You seem very angry and confused, so seek out some counseling before it gets wildly out of control.

Answer 10

Well don't do anything rash dude. Me and my mom have problems to. (especially sence she's single) Sit down and talk to her, if she doesn't listen, I want you to get up call someone you trust and tell him/her what your mom is doing to you. A mother's love can't be matched. And try to think things through her eyes. Is she going through problems? Is her job going a muck? And if you get really angry, go to your room, and try to calm down, maybe take a cool shower. That's what calms me down.