I have been dealing with this guy for 5 years we have two kids together but he has two kids by someone else. The other day he says the dumbest thing to me, "I can't chose between you two." Meaning he wants to have his cake and eat it to. My question is does he really care about either one of us or does he just enjoy going back and forth?
PS I have stop dealing with him after I found out that he had other baby on the way by the other girl, that makes her two.
2007-10-07 02:56:08 · 7 answers · asked by NUrDreams 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would have to agree with you he just wants his cake and eat it too but i am not going to tell you to "JUST SUE THE GUY AND TAKE ALL HIS MONEY" like i have been seeing on Yahoo ANSWER all night. I will how ever tell you to instead on making him chose you should chose for him and tell him this that he doesn't have to cos you are gone but of course let him be the father and if down the line he shapes up and smells the roses and realizes that you are the girl for you and you still feel the same way them you might be able to get back together but done wait for that chances are he wont and you should move on and find someone that can treat you how you should be and sees you as the only one and not have to CHOSE between you and anyone cos you are the one ... good luck
2007-10-07 03:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sigher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get child support. Official from a court. Allow visitation and dump the guy.
You don't want him to choose. He has already shown his true colors, you would never trust him, for good reason.
Been married to the same woman 25 yr.
2007-10-07 10:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Charles C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you interested in my opinion ?!?!?
i wouldn"t let him go if hr is a nice guy . I mean if he is smart , hardworker , a good father . I wouldn"t let him go . I would fight for this guy .Just immagine why would you let him to be used by another female is she better than you ?
And what to do you have to think
2007-10-07 10:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by falenish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playin' both of you..
As long as he takes care of his kids ther'e no problem..
But you should stop ''seeing' him..
Move on, let him be a father and just be..
He obviously doesn't care about neither of you..
2007-10-07 10:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Esm[][]th 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He told you, plainly, he's got another woman, why r you there still??? Cut your losses & leave, make him pay support, and be responsible to his kids!! When you get support, he'll move in with her, as HIS CHOICE
2007-10-07 11:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt have gotten involved with him in the first place. were u drunk
2007-10-07 10:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ray Puto 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GET SUPPORT FOR YOUR CHILDREN ...........MOVE ON ......HE NEEDS SOME REAL LIFE THERAPY
2007-10-07 10:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋