Marriage & Divorce - 1 April 2007

I am 26. When I was 19 I met this police officer and fell in love with him. He was 10 years my senior and had a girlfriend. The feelings were mutual. He left his girlfriend AFTER we got involved. I got pregnant when I was 20, he wanted me to have an abortion. I said no. He wanted adoption. I said no so he ignored me for 2 years, didn't meet his son until he was almost 1..and didn't get involved with his life until he was 2. This was the only significant relationship of my life...even though he never told me we were officially dating..and he never told me he loved me. About 3 years ago I met a guy at work. We liked each other and he made it no secret he was married. I slept with him (only the 2nd guy I had sex with). It's still going on and I want out because I'm starting to feel EXTREMELY guilty about this. I don't love him, but you can't just tell someone you've been with 3 years goodbye. I still love my son's dad..but he never loved me. My self esteem is low.

2007-04-01 02:45:15 · 18 answers · asked by carpediem3000 3

I dated my husband for almost 5 years before marrying him. We have been married 2 years. Before getting married, I learned that he had lied about several aspects of his past because was afraid "I wouldn't think he was good enough." I also heard rumors of him having sex with a girl at a convention he went to, but for years he claimed he just "slept in a bed with her one night" and I was too naive to believe otherwise. Of course, he eventually admitted (after marriage) that he did sleep with her. Throughout our marriage, I also learned that he had a girlfriend for almost the first year that we were dating, and kept us from finding out about each other. Because of our trust issues, I had "rules" about his bachelor trip before the wedding. He came home and said nothing happened, then a year later I found out from his friends that he was given a lap dance. He is angry over my lack of trust. I don't trust him at all, and I'm so hurt by what he's done. Is my marriage worth saving?

2007-04-01 02:34:22 · 20 answers · asked by Bella 2

2007-04-01 02:23:32 · 1 answers · asked by tattoo_girl24 1

been seperaterd a few months from my wife at her insistence.off and on things have been bad/good.things have been good recently.had my 2 kids away for the weekend last week.
anyway got a call from her at 3am thus morn telling me how she didn't want to be horrible to me and started playing our first song at our wedding down the phone and asked me to go up to hers.i said i could'nt but went up in morning and took my kids to school and nursery and kept them til late evening.
on fri night she takes home a guy she works with and obviously he spends the night.
as you might guess my head is spinning with emotions and don't know where the hell my ex is coming from i have decided to do all i can to blank her out my life but it is difficult with the kids.

2007-04-01 02:00:02 · 15 answers · asked by head up guy 1

2007-04-01 01:55:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a male36 Indian with small amount of income.

2007-04-01 00:15:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anjan B 1

It really bothers me when I email my mother in law and she replies to my husband, but she just assumes that I would know everything in his email too.

2007-04-01 00:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by growing inside 5

Do I have any legal backing to see my children if I have a chemical imbalance that's easily maintained with medication and have been arressted for a domestic dispute where no charges have been filed? Also, is it even legal for grandparents to make next to impossible for me not to see them?

2007-04-01 00:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by needlesandpins013 1