Friends - October 2006

My bestfriend and I attend Nursing school together. She was raised spoiled and is very selfish but a wonderful person overall. I just found out about my breast cancer and have lost my job, had to withdraw this semester and can't work. I am not in a good spot. My family has no money but they are trying to do for me what they can. I just know if the roles were reversed I would do ANYTHING to help her. Am I being selfish for being angry at her for not even offering to help? Every day she calls me and tells me about her new 5 bedroom house, her new clothes ect. I don't want to hear it...yes, I'm jealous but I feel like she's rubbing it in my face and deep down I know she's not because we always talk about everything. So...am I wrong for feeling angry and just plain pist?

2006-10-29 06:51:38 · 14 answers · asked by Harleygal 2

i am one of sucker.
but i met too many suckers who are worse than me.
i have a bad depression cause of them.
and cant trust people.

2006-10-29 06:48:13 · 11 answers · asked by ★japanese lady★ 3

Well I told my son and him not to horseplay in the house and obviously they didn't listen. They were watching football and then got out a football and starting throwing it in the den and ended up somehow knocking over a glass lamp shattering it. It was about 100 dollars and my wife really liked it. She is big on interior decorating. Well I got really upset and took my belt off and then spanked my son really hard. Then I told his friend he was going to get one too. I guess he was kind of shocked but the thing is, I told these kids not to horseplay and I doubt he had the money to pay for half of it being that he is only 12. I was angry at the time. Well needless to say he ended up going home and now his mom calls me up and starts saying how wrong I was to do that and how she is thinking about calling the police, etc. He is from a single parent household and obviously the kid has no male authority figure in his life so I told her I did her a favor and she should thank me.

2006-10-29 06:47:22 · 38 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2

Would it be wrong for me to distance myself from some of my friends or people I thought were my friends? Reason being, they keep recycling my ex men. Isn't there a code for friendships? I mean, some lines you just don't cross. Right?

2006-10-29 06:46:55 · 4 answers · asked by denise 2

2006-10-29 06:41:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A woman I would consider my best friend, as we get older, does more and more things that are disturbing or immoral to me. I am no prude, but the most recent example is that her and her husband are on a two year plan to reduce debt, her obtain a career and then divorce. They have 3 children, one out of the house, but they are both actively prusuing other relationships. I think they could surely wait til the plan is complete and be divorced, especially when there are kids involved. Do I or can I continue with this friendship when I feel we are getting further apart in our thinkging and values?

2006-10-29 06:40:11 · 6 answers · asked by Sheila 6

I have known this girl for most of my life. She's not a good friend, but rather someone I might meet up with once in a great while. She can't keep a job because she's such a trouble maker and does a lot of drugs (that's the reason I usually keep my distance). She has been asking me for months if I would get her into the company I work for and I always avoid the question. Recently she put in her application and came in for an interview. She also dropped my name at the interview. She told them that she is attending medical school and graduated second in her high school class (in reality she failed out of 9th and 10th grade, then quit high school). She also told them that she does fashion modeling--the truth is that she does pornographic modeling. I'm very angry that she came there looking for a job and even more angry that she gave them my name. They saw right through her lies in the interview, but still...if they didn't know me better, it could make me look bad.

2006-10-29 06:38:06 · 15 answers · asked by Jaime-Lyn! 5

My friend and I have gotten really close lately and I really like him as MORE than a friend but i cant tell if he likes me he always likes to tease me and joke about sex and stuff... and he is always like "your so cute the way you talk" and stuff. Or I will be like ooo camping sounds fun and he will go "yeah we wouldnt be in the tent we would be going off in the woods doing a little somethin somethin" and he confuses me becuase I cant tell if he is just being funny or nice or teasing or he actually likes me. But he is always trying to get me horny and always like telling me like "If I was there right now" what we or he would be doing and just stuff like that. He makes noises like we were having sex on the phone just cuz he does and always trys to bug the heak outta me. And like sometimes we talk about personal stuff and I will cry and he is like if you were here right now I would have u on my bed and give u a BIG hug...what does that sound like to u? Do u think he likes me?

2006-10-29 06:27:20 · 4 answers · asked by Artificially Sweet 2

just something nice sweet but not sappy.

about friend ship boys and things like that

2006-10-29 06:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok heres the thing I am engaged I love me fiance more then anything we hve been together for 5 years were getting married in 2008..the problem is I have this guy friend that I used to date before I met my fiance we were to younge to be together so we ended it we hve been friends every since.when me and my fiance broke up for a while I slept with him...then he started tlking all crazy sayin he loved me blah blah blah..now hes in the marines a few times he said he wanted to be with me but since im with my fiance he cant do that to me...now hes talking to some girl and I kinda feel werid about it cause he aint acting like he used to with me..like all in love...do I tell him how I feel or just leave it I dont want to mess up our friendship.....has anyone ever been in this situation???

2006-10-29 06:22:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 06:18:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

by playing games, I mean being a "best friend" type and then being MIA -- really hot & cold...get it?

2006-10-29 06:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by vanillaspice 2

okay, i've known this guy for ages. he asked me out over the summer. He likes me, and he knew i liked him. well i never got a chanse to say yes, because my stupid friends said no for me.
any way, last night at a halloween party, he was holding my hand. he just casually took it and pulled it between our legs. i was shocked, but didn't do anything stupid. so we had to go to another party. All eight of us piled into two cars. Nick, another girl and i were crammed into one row. he held my hand again.

does this mean all is forgiven? He's been ignoring me for ages what do i do???? how do i tell him i still like him? he's been a close friend for like seven years. I'm too shy to tell him out right. was my holding his hand back enough to get the message across?

2006-10-29 06:13:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i know when people are jelous and what can i do

2006-10-29 06:11:56 · 5 answers · asked by elle 1

...married with children and never go out unless you plan a year in advance. Anyone ever go out by themselves to a bar?

2006-10-29 06:01:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend lies constantly...about EVERYTHING!!!! its sooo rediculos. Its not as easy as telling her that we know she is lying...becuase we have told her/hinted that to her. She doesnt get it!!! she wont stop! She is starting to loose her frinds... what can my friends and i do to stop her?!

2006-10-29 05:59:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anna-Banana 2

How can you tell if someone is envious of you? I'm asking because I have a cousin who is ALWAYS picking on me and harassing me. She says she does it because she knows she irritates me, but I have a feeling that it goes deeper than that because I asked her if she was jealous of me, she got really mad and wanted to fight me. I also think she might be jealous because she pays a lot of attention to me and seems to always be watching me when I'm not looking. She knows a LOT about me,and it seems like she always tries to frustrate me. She also seems competitive, and she seems happy when I am down and down when I'm happy. If she wasn't jealous of me, why would she
care enough to be picking on me in the first place? I don't think I am an ugly, deformed person, so what's the deal? Do you think
she would admit it if she were jealous of me? I am just tripping? Maybe she really does only pick on me because she makes me mad? Or is it jealousy, too?

2006-10-29 05:57:45 · 4 answers · asked by Infinite 1

what does it mean to "get a.s.s?"

2006-10-29 05:56:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are so so so bored and i want to do something fun outside we live in arizona in scottsdale and it is cool we already rode are bikes what else should we do?

2006-10-29 05:48:30 · 12 answers · asked by hi 2

i said something to my friend that i shouldn't have and now he won't answer my emails. my friend and i are really close, like brothers. he's got new people in his life, and i haven't seen him for the longest time. and since we are like brothers, this may sound childish, i felt like i was being replaced. so i told him. he told me to 'lay off' and i haven't heard from, seen him since. what could i say to make my friend realize how sorry i am?

2006-10-29 05:35:21 · 5 answers · asked by thee wojc 2

2006-10-29 05:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

people who say they have more then 10 they aren't all true freinds? o yeah another thing they can't be related to you in any way..?? also just curious if you do have more then 10 then are they all definalty 100% true friends?

2006-10-29 05:30:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy that i like a lot, the thing is that we never talked before. i mean probably hi and bye but that's it. he's also verrry ugly but hes not nerdy. im just so attracted to him. even he knows that i like him. so would it be weird for a guy to find out that this girl that doesn't even know him, like him? cuz that turned him off i think, cuz now he avoids me. and everytime he passes i totally shut up. he notices that i do too and he knows its because of him.

2006-10-29 05:28:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who is a girl. The day after a party we both attended she sends me this e-mail:

"We are friends, you don't have to e-mail me you can call me anytime."

How should I interpret this e-mail message?

2006-10-29 05:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

and for them to be good friends and go hang out and such.
and for the 23 year old to play Yu-gi -oh cards with the 14 year old boy and have sleepovers with him.

is this.... normal? would you do it?

2006-10-29 05:01:41 · 15 answers · asked by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3

if we love somebody
if we take care at somebody
if we really really really love love love honest at somebody

but s/he did'nt know that ... or s/he know about that but s/he look like nothing happen ..

what should we do ???

2006-10-29 04:43:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i m 16 yrs n i like a boy but don t know whether he likes me....but thts not problem. due to circumstances in school v both were teased by each other s name ( though none knew abt my liking towards him) just like that n so v kinda start liking each other less. now v both got scholorship to australia ( only v 2 from city) n i don t know how to clear up or v d b alone...................plz help............n that boy is really very nice n kind but only due to circumstances v had problem with each other......plz suggest wat to do.......................plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2006-10-29 04:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by strangerrrrrrrrrr 1

one of my friends hate me cause i'm going out with one of her friends! but hes the one who asked me out and she had already known i was going out with him! what should i do?

2006-10-29 04:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by eryn m 1

i don't hink we should give up personal privacy so that we all can be safe because giving up my privacy is not protecting me

2006-10-29 04:30:57 · 5 answers · asked by coretha b 1

i wanna stop it, cause i regret it later, could it just be in me?

2006-10-29 04:30:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous