My friend lies constantly...about EVERYTHING!!!! its sooo rediculos. Its not as easy as telling her that we know she is lying...becuase we have told her/hinted that to her. She doesnt get it!!! she wont stop! She is starting to loose her frinds... what can my friends and i do to stop her?!
2006-10-29 05:59:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anna-Banana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Always ask her on everything she says. It will get so annoying to her being caught or not being trusted that she will think twice before she speaks , well, most of the time, I hope. I had a friend like that . She got mad but learned her lesson!
2006-10-29 06:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I extremely have had some fairly undesirable memories with a pathological liar. indexed lower than are some issues i have discovered: she isn't a strong chum to you. strong acquaintances would not lie to you each and every of the time. What this gal is doing is exhibiting the utmost of desrespect for you, or perhaps (possibly subconsciously) thinks you're an fool for the way she will be able to lie like loopy to you and there aren't any consequences. Any attempt you're making at confronting her will in hardship-free words convey about better lies. Emm, you favor to in hardship-free words decrease all ties including her, and benefit this as we talk. you do not ought to describe some thing to her because she will be able to lie to make it look like you're the undesirable chum, that you aren't to any extent further. in case you favor to study my journey with a pathological liar, there's a blog on my 360 dated January 4th of this 3 hundred and sixty 5 days. that's not uncomplicated to diminish her off, i'm particular, yet in case you do not, you'll by no skill have self belief her to inform the actuality. It develop into organic evil with this gal who pretended to be my ultimate chum. I felt like the worst fool contained in the international. i wish issues workout consultation for you. you do not deserve that treatment, and also you do not owe her a proof or some thing. Drop her like a warm potato and do not look back.
2016-10-16 06:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person needs help. Habitual lying is a sign of deep internalized stress, perhaps from a childhood trauma. You have to see behind the behavior to the root causes. She may be in denial about this. So try to get her to see a good trained counselor she can trust. My educated guess: there are deep issues in this girl's life that make her lie.
2006-10-29 06:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just refuse to stop. Because they think what they're doing is cool or they just don't get it because they're thick-headed or just prefer to ignore. Just go up to your friend and confront her. Tell her that lying is just getting a little annoying and that it's stupid to lie about things anyway. If she doesn't stop...As you mentioned, she's starting to lose her friends. Maybe that's what you should do too!
2006-10-29 06:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to separate from those who do not speak the truth. She has to come to terms that it is not necessary to lie ever. Being a friend is not lying. God does not want us to lie to each other and when you do it does damage our relationship as friends. I pray you take heed and find your self better friends. God bless you
2006-10-29 06:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to them and tell them you dont like how you will always lie to me maybe you should stop and say the truth its way better and give her a chance if it doesnt work then dont b her friend if you know someone will always lie to you
2006-10-29 06:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by elle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much, could be thousands of reasons why she is doing it....best is just to move on and hope she wakes up someday to her actions and changes.
This is a situation known as tough love.
2006-10-29 06:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her with truth that you know she's lieing about.
She will be caught and feel embarrassed.
My daughter has a friend that is a compulsive lier. She needs counseling.
2006-10-29 06:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop lying or pretty soon she'll have no friends at all.
2006-10-29 06:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend you can't be with a liar. Then take them out of your life.
2006-10-29 06:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋