How can you tell if someone is envious of you? I'm asking because I have a cousin who is ALWAYS picking on me and harassing me. She says she does it because she knows she irritates me, but I have a feeling that it goes deeper than that because I asked her if she was jealous of me, she got really mad and wanted to fight me. I also think she might be jealous because she pays a lot of attention to me and seems to always be watching me when I'm not looking. She knows a LOT about me,and it seems like she always tries to frustrate me. She also seems competitive, and she seems happy when I am down and down when I'm happy. If she wasn't jealous of me, why would she
care enough to be picking on me in the first place? I don't think I am an ugly, deformed person, so what's the deal? Do you think
she would admit it if she were jealous of me? I am just tripping? Maybe she really does only pick on me because she makes me mad? Or is it jealousy, too?
2006-10-29 05:57:45 · 4 answers · asked by Infinite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she could most likely be jealous of you for what ever reason..maybe you have something she wants or you completed something better then her..or it could be just that she knows that it gets to you, and makes you upset so she keeps doing it to get a rise out of you...for the most part it just sounds like she's a bi**h..don't let her get to you, eventually she will just go away..or do like i would and the next time she wants to fight just KNOCK HER OUT. then she'll leave you alone......
2006-10-29 06:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by CHERRYSCION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 2 things: Your cousin picks on you because you are an easy victim and you aren't fighting back effectively. As far as envy goes, people are always envious when you have something they don't have, or are happier than they are. Some people are better at hiding it, and those are the ones you have to be careful with.
2006-10-29 06:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by martin h 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
your cousin might be jealous of you. Why else would she be so preoocupied with you? I don't think you should worry about it. You're driving yourself crazy over someone who could only just be jealous of you. Get over her....she isn't worth it.
2006-10-29 06:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by moneymakerchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
constant criticism, but most likely you will know if somebody is jealous of you.
2006-10-29 05:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by 120 IQ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋